She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ok, realist. When you get stripped of everything and maybe rotting in a jail, tell me all about "exotic". Florida's got all the "jungle" anyone could ask for. Massachusetts, of all places, has forest so thick you need a machete to get thru it. The rest of the world is SO envious of what we have here, they'd give up everything they have to be a bum here.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
we have plenty of adventure right here in the US. You have no idea. This place is HUGE and has tons of stuff beyond imagining. Even Google can't list it all. That's why so few of us travel abroad. there's no need to do so.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There is some truth to part of this statement.Sorry but..... No, men are just as *****y as women, and they gossip like women too. All this talk about taking womens rights away screams of insecurity, ive witnessd power triping were i work and.gossiping at the gym. All this women cant be understood and are slaves to their hormones is a bunch of ****, guys are just as much slavez to their hormones, if men wernt, you wouldnt get all these beta males orbiting pretty girls(which in.turn gr8ly boosts their ego)
Men use underhanded tactics like that too, with one difference: they try to pretend their reasoning is logical and based on facts. Whereas some women will just invent bullsh1t that is so otherworldly, it's hard to believe they're serious.This is my breakdown of women in the workplace:
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Gym, in the office, taxi drivers is were i have mainly seen men be bitchy. Men will never wake up and stop feeding womens.ego's, it like Marx expecting.the working.class to revolt against the upper class..... Nice idea, but its just a pipe dream!There is some truth to part of this statement.
If men acted differently towards women and didn't give them so much attention, their egos would not be boosted and thus they would behave differently. Imagine what would happen if men no longer needed women for sex? And then women actually had to start legitimately earning their keep in the world? They would cease to exist in a short number of years, that's what.... But then soon men would too because of the whole reproductive thing.. But my point is, men control it, we have the upper hand because we are the gender that can legitamately get things done in the world and we don't need women to help us..
Women can be understood. You have to take the logic out of your attempts to understand them. Don't look for logic. Don't expect logic. Forgot about logic as an element in what they do.. Then they make complete sense.
Otherwise, men do not gossip like women do, some but far, far less.. Men are not just as b|tchy as women, in general.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
my 3 bosses are 2 betas and a woman as you mentionedThis is my breakdown of women in the workplace:
- Many think they are smarter than everyone else
- Many lie.. Ohhh they lie.. So bad..
- Many want to do bare minimum to keep their jobs by blending in
- Many think they are important and the place could not survive without them, even if they are no more than the lowest level of secretary
- Many will create artificial problems so they can then turn around and "fix" said problems and look\feel productive
- Many will throw anyone under the bus with zero factual basis in order to save their own reputation
- Many have one tool they use to fix most of their problems and do most of their tasks; the telephone
- Many will try to avoid putting things in Email and other forms of writing so they can later play the "he said/she said" game to their advantage
- Many will try to play the roll of 'the boss' and order others around when they have no official rank to do so
- Many will look at the work they are unable to perform as 'below them anyway' to try and justify not doing it and having someone else do it
- Many will get promoted by white knight men who fall for their tactics and think they might get their c0ck heads wet by doing so. Then once permoted the women permote other women. And so on. And so on.. Until women are running the whole place all the way to the top.. They might leave a weak beta male or two in charge of some areas just to have the brain power somewhere (LL calls this the ****roach effect, they multiply like roaches and take over)
COVER YOUR A$$!! COVER YOUR A$$!! COVER YOUR A$$!!
*Many = 90-95%
Dumb **** coworker today: Zinc4, you want to get up and help us putting out these new pamphlets (in a demanding and loud bossy tone).Dumb **** coworker today: Zinc4, you want to get up and help us putting out these new pamphlets (in a demanding and loud bossy tone).
Me: ok
Three mins later, I sit down.
Dumb bossy **** coworker: oh....so you are just quit?
Me: I'm dealing with something important right now.
Dumb bossy coworker: I'm going to leave these here then you can start putting them out.
Me: totally ignore her while browsing my phone
Five mins later I stand up towards her and another chubby sized female coworker.....
She raises her voice, you know what me and bla bla will do it you just go over there.
These ****s are literally driving me crazy....only one more week of it.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.