"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you want to marry, is a hot black/dark Latin or Indian the best option??

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everybody complains about how horrible women age but that's mostly a light skin white women thing. I see black women at my job who are 65 with barely any wrikles

if you can find a hot light skin black chick or a hot darker Hispanic chick, is that your best bet for marriage? If you get them to workout and stay in shape, they will be ****able for a very very long time. White women are basically ****able until 40 to 45 and then they look ancient...black women in shape are ****able until maybe 60 to 65 if they are in good shape

middle eastern is good too...my mom has barely any wrinkles at 55. I went to an Armenian gathering thing and there was a 65 to 70 year old woman there who I still would smash (not to sound weird). She had decent skin with not many wrinkles.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yawn...sorry bro...gotta officially hit the ignore button
 

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Too much to unpack here. I can’t do it.

If you’re looking to screen women for good skin as they age...oiliness is a good indicator. People with oiley skin tend to get few wrinkles as they age compared to people with dry skin.
 

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everybody complains about how horrible women age but that's mostly a light skin white women thing. I see black women at my job who are 65 with barely any wrikles

if you can find a hot light skin black chick or a hot darker Hispanic chick, is that your best bet for marriage? If you get them to workout and stay in shape, they will be ****able for a very very long time. White women are basically ****able until 40 to 45 and then they look ancient...black women in shape are ****able until maybe 60 to 65 if they are in good shape

middle eastern is good too...my mom has barely any wrinkles at 55. I went to an Armenian gathering thing and there was a 65 to 70 year old woman there who I still would smash (not to sound weird). She had decent skin with not many wrinkles.
Yes, they are the best option for you. When you go to Las Vagas to get married, why not start with those types? I'm sure someone may randomly say yes. Do you also need a best man?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. Most white women age horribly. Black, Hispanic, Indian traditionally age better. Just look at Taraji Henson. She still looks good as hell and she's 40 something.
 
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everybody complains about how horrible women age but that's mostly a light skin white women thing. I see black women at my job who are 65 with barely any wrikles

if you can find a hot light skin black chick or a hot darker Hispanic chick, is that your best bet for marriage? If you get them to workout and stay in shape, they will be ****able for a very very long time. White women are basically ****able until 40 to 45 and then they look ancient...black women in shape are ****able until maybe 60 to 65 if they are in good shape

middle eastern is good too...my mom has barely any wrinkles at 55. I went to an Armenian gathering thing and there was a 65 to 70 year old woman there who I still would smash (not to sound weird). She had decent skin with not many wrinkles.
While the ability to maintain looks and stay in shape is important, please have more criteria than that because marriage isn't just dating someone, it's a legal contract.

The best bet for marriage is someone you not only find physically attractive, but with whom you are compatible, someone who is going to stand by you and really have your back during bad times.

A pretty non wrinkled face and fit body won't mean much if she has no respect or loyality to you.
 
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There's no single algorithm that covers all women
Don't agree.

In essence you are right.... No women is the same, generality do exist but there is no "one fit all size"

But there is a universal algorithm to having a great girl: "Be great yourself and pick a great girl which answer your wants and needs, build with her"

Obama (president) posted an article recently about how : "your life partner is a critical element of your progress in life"

That's true.

There is a reason why companies used to interview families of candidate. There is a reason why strong couple succeed more than individuals.

That's the algorithm and you are the composer
PS: Asian (Japanese women age best)
 
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One of the reasons why marriages fail is unrealistic expectations. I had that going into my first marriage as did my ex husband and that definitely contributed to its failure. I was also young and stupid so that didn't help.

If you can't feel fulfilled as a person without a partner, then you have nothing to offer a partner, imo, because you are starting with a deficit that you expect them to fill and that's a big ask. Ideally both people should have their sh*t together and are looking to compliment each other rather than fill a void.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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After marriage, kids and years of being in each other's space, by the time the two of you are 60, it won't matter how good her skin is. Yore going to be waiting for that b*tch to just die already.

I'm kidding.... sort of.
One of my female client who just got married with the father of her kids. (They in their 30's and he's older than her)

She told me about her family doctor (female) telling her how much old ladies are coming in her office saying they can't wait for their husband to die, cause he's annoying (probably old couples of 30)... it was around 70% of the ladies I think
 

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Nope, you marry them based on their attitude, behavior, personality, character, education, classiness, that kind of stuff.

That's why when you're in a LTR, you're supposed to look for anything negative about her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lads you are not practicing what you preach....OP would have been NC'd a long time ago if he was a woman..........

OP takes no notice off constructive criticism ive always noticed this! Totally overlooking anyones solid advice or that he needs to make changes,....
He then replies to what suites him or his beliefs

OP is a wind up merchant
 

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Younger is more asthetically pleasing and the older a woman is the more baggage, damage, and bitter she'll be.
Actually, younger women are preferred due to mathematical reasons.

Guys way back in the day (pre-history) who were naturally attracted to younger women (compared to guys who were naturally attracted to older women) had more kids with those younger women.

And those kids all had daddy's gene of that said "young women are hotter than older women."

The reason is not really relevant. Only that all men, in all cultures, will prefer, all else equal, younger women over older women.

This comes across in anything that SIGNALS youth in women.

It's also why "men prefer blondes" because blonde hair is a sign of youth, as natural blondes tend to go brown as they age.

This is also why the fashion industry, makeup cosmetic surgery does EVERYTHING it can to make women look younger than they really are.

Every time any woman uses any kind of makeup, clothing, shoes, cosmetic surgery, it's to "trick" men into thinking she is YOUNGER than she really is.

The Yanomami, who live in the Brazilian rainforest, (and are immune to modern social conditioning) have a name (moke dude) which describes the age range of the IDEAL WOMAN.

Between puberty and first child.

If you are an advertiser, or pop star, or social media personality, this is age (between puberty and first child) that is the golden ticket to $$$

For ladies, it's all downhill after that, as far as attention and desirability.
 

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everybody complains about how horrible women age but that's mostly a light skin white women thing. I see black women at my job who are 65 with barely any wrikles

if you can find a hot light skin black chick or a hot darker Hispanic chick, is that your best bet for marriage? If you get them to workout and stay in shape, they will be ****able for a very very long time. White women are basically ****able until 40 to 45 and then they look ancient...black women in shape are ****able until maybe 60 to 65 if they are in good shape

middle eastern is good too...my mom has barely any wrinkles at 55. I went to an Armenian gathering thing and there was a 65 to 70 year old woman there who I still would smash (not to sound weird). She had decent skin with not many wrinkles.
Women of all races, colors, and ethnicities come with their flaws.
 

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everybody complains about how horrible women age but that's mostly a light skin white women thing. I see black women at my job who are 65 with barely any wrikles

if you can find a hot light skin black chick or a hot darker Hispanic chick, is that your best bet for marriage? If you get them to workout and stay in shape, they will be ****able for a very very long time. White women are basically ****able until 40 to 45 and then they look ancient...black women in shape are ****able until maybe 60 to 65 if they are in good shape

middle eastern is good too...my mom has barely any wrinkles at 55. I went to an Armenian gathering thing and there was a 65 to 70 year old woman there who I still would smash (not to sound weird). She had decent skin with not many wrinkles.
Colour of the skin isnt the issue. All women age. All looks fade.

What you dont want to do is marry a woman with an agenda that has been taught by women magazines that you are a guarenteed lottery ticket. One that has her eyes on your assets and will divorce you and take half your property and assets because feminizm, the courts and laws encourage them to do so.

The woman with a plan. You avoid those.
 

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Too much to unpack here. I can’t do it.

If you’re looking to screen women for good skin as they age...oiliness is a good indicator. People with oiley skin tend to get few wrinkles as they age compared to people with dry skin.
I have always wondered if this might be the case, as I have found the same thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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