"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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If you want to call up a girl for some sport-sex...

squirrels

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How do you do it?

I mean, do you create a premise for the two of you to get together, or can you just call up and make it apparent that you're interested in SEX and nothing else?

In other words, how do you booty-call a girl up to your place for some sexing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you want to come over and watch a movie?
 

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Good one ^^^

Or if you're like me, fukkin dorm chicks:

"I'll drop by tonight"
 

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Booty calls are just that.

The total length of a booty phone call, should not take more than 20 seconds.

You: "Hey - what are you upto?"
her: "Nothing, just hanging out"
You: "I'm close by - I'm going to come by ok?"
Her: "Sure"
You: "CU in 2 minutes"


These are the girls that you do nothing else with. There is no movies, dinner, dates whatever. She knows what your comming over for - there is nothing left to the imagination.
 

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yep the calls are short and to the point. this FB that i've hit a few times simply calls me and asks me what i'm doing. i'll tell her what i'm doing that night and what time she should come over.

last friday night she came over with her friend. the friend got into a verbal fight with my friend, so my FB did not want to leave them in the room by themselves. so we didn't do our thing that night, but my FB was really turned on and ready to go.

so on saturday night she called me 3 times while i was with my GF in bed at 2:30am. she left me a voicemail saying she wanted to come over. my GF was pretty suspicious about me gettin calls from a girl that late. i just told her the girl was crazy for me and she won't stop trying to hook up with me. lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean, do you create a premise for the two of you to get together, or can you just call up and make it apparent that you're interested in SEX and nothing else?
If all YOU'RE interested in is sex, but she doesn't know that and it hasn't yet been established that she is a FB and the call is a booty-call... then you create a "premise". But a thinly veiled one. "Let's watch a video" is pretty much code for "let's fool around". Just actually have a video there (any one) and turn it on and then ignore it.

If it is already apparent to her that her own purpose for you is sexual, and she doesn't mind this, then just invite her over (or invite yourself over). It really depends on your relationship with the girl. If it's already been established that yours is a booty call relationship only, specifically saying "I'm coming over to **** you" is fine. :D
 

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Sport-sex?

I've never had sex while swimming. Don't block the lanes.
 
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