"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If you want to call up a girl for some sport-sex...

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How do you do it?

I mean, do you create a premise for the two of you to get together, or can you just call up and make it apparent that you're interested in SEX and nothing else?

In other words, how do you booty-call a girl up to your place for some sexing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you want to come over and watch a movie?
 
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Good one ^^^

Or if you're like me, fukkin dorm chicks:

"I'll drop by tonight"
 
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Booty calls are just that.

The total length of a booty phone call, should not take more than 20 seconds.

You: "Hey - what are you upto?"
her: "Nothing, just hanging out"
You: "I'm close by - I'm going to come by ok?"
Her: "Sure"
You: "CU in 2 minutes"


These are the girls that you do nothing else with. There is no movies, dinner, dates whatever. She knows what your comming over for - there is nothing left to the imagination.
 
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yep the calls are short and to the point. this FB that i've hit a few times simply calls me and asks me what i'm doing. i'll tell her what i'm doing that night and what time she should come over.

last friday night she came over with her friend. the friend got into a verbal fight with my friend, so my FB did not want to leave them in the room by themselves. so we didn't do our thing that night, but my FB was really turned on and ready to go.

so on saturday night she called me 3 times while i was with my GF in bed at 2:30am. she left me a voicemail saying she wanted to come over. my GF was pretty suspicious about me gettin calls from a girl that late. i just told her the girl was crazy for me and she won't stop trying to hook up with me. lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I mean, do you create a premise for the two of you to get together, or can you just call up and make it apparent that you're interested in SEX and nothing else?
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If all YOU'RE interested in is sex, but she doesn't know that and it hasn't yet been established that she is a FB and the call is a booty-call... then you create a "premise". But a thinly veiled one. "Let's watch a video" is pretty much code for "let's fool around". Just actually have a video there (any one) and turn it on and then ignore it.

If it is already apparent to her that her own purpose for you is sexual, and she doesn't mind this, then just invite her over (or invite yourself over). It really depends on your relationship with the girl. If it's already been established that yours is a booty call relationship only, specifically saying "I'm coming over to **** you" is fine. :D
 
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Sport-sex?

I've never had sex while swimming. Don't block the lanes.
 
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