"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"If you want short-term stints, don't express long-term values"

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A co-worker, who's also a bartender, shared that tidbit with me. He's a bit crazy, so I don't know what I can believe with this guy, but his point was that guys who illustrate long-term qualities don't't get the easy/quick sex, while those that don't usually get the one-night stands but despoil themselves of any long term shot.

How true is this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It is a true enough.
 
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It's pretty true. If you just want to bang her, then you'd better cut to the chase. Escalate and make a move. If you are considering getting into an LTR, you should consider holding off a little bit because you might trigger her anti-slvt defense.
 
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What about in terms of initial communication and behavior? Are there specific pitfalls or things you say and do that can trigger long-term as opposed to short-term response and compatibility?
 
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AmIAFC said:
What about in terms of initial communication and behavior? Are there specific pitfalls or things you say and do that can trigger long-term as opposed to short-term response and compatibility?
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I think it would be easy enough for women to pick up on. Something like the badboy and goodguy types for example. Badboys want some bedroom action and goodguys/nice guys want to take things slower and have a relationship.


So I think women looking for one night stands would look for a flirty guy who is sexually aggressive and maybe a bit ****y.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AmIAFC said:
A co-worker, who's also a bartender, shared that tidbit with me. He's a bit crazy, so I don't know what I can believe with this guy, but his point was that guys who illustrate long-term qualities don't't get the easy/quick sex, while those that don't usually get the one-night stands but despoil themselves of any long term shot.

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i dunno about you guys but sometimes i 'illustrate long-term qualities' just to get laid (eg. saying nonensical romantic stuff like i miss you blah blah blah). It just depends who im dealing with.
 
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It's fairly true. If you are percieved as boyfriend material it's not uncommon for women who would normally give up sex pretty quickly to hold out to get you as a boyfriend. The inverse is also true, they might jump into bed with you in no time flat and not consider you to be long-term relationship material, even if you did want that as your goal. However, the latter perception is much easier to change than the former IMO. Guys who have had actual relationships that spawned from ONS are examples of this.
 
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