"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you want me, stop being flakey

challice

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Let me firstly say that this post is in connection with This one since I’m talking about the same person.

I haven't been able to really set up anything with her because she works everyday in our next door state, which is about an hour away in good traffic so by the time she gets home; it’s usually about 11PM and she has to wake up early for the next day.

As I mentioned before, she lives about 15 minutes away though. I usually just see her when I go out at nights but when I do see her, she’ll basically give me all the attention and usually blow off other guys just to talk or dance with me so obviously IL is high or at least seems high.

Now on to my scenario, she always decides to go home with her friend at the end of the night and I’ve kiss closed her twice now, Friday being the last time. On Saturday, I called her up saying that I wanted to come over to her place, she has invited me over before but I had something serious to do. When I got there, she was so awkward and distant that you would think that she was another person. I must say that two of her roommate’s a.k.a best friends were there but I’m good friends with them so I wouldn’t think it would matter.

I’ve heard from her friends that she’s a little strange around men and apparently, many of the guys she’s been with are scared off because acts so distant so I know I need to use this to my advantage but incorporating it is a problem.

I’m just a little confused with the situation. I mean, she is not the only girl that I’m “gaming” so I’m not completely hopeless but I want to make dealing with this girl my new objective.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah perhaps calling out on her actions would be the best way to handle the situation with this girl.
 
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