“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you want me, stop being flakey

challice

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Let me firstly say that this post is in connection with This one since I’m talking about the same person.

I haven't been able to really set up anything with her because she works everyday in our next door state, which is about an hour away in good traffic so by the time she gets home; it’s usually about 11PM and she has to wake up early for the next day.

As I mentioned before, she lives about 15 minutes away though. I usually just see her when I go out at nights but when I do see her, she’ll basically give me all the attention and usually blow off other guys just to talk or dance with me so obviously IL is high or at least seems high.

Now on to my scenario, she always decides to go home with her friend at the end of the night and I’ve kiss closed her twice now, Friday being the last time. On Saturday, I called her up saying that I wanted to come over to her place, she has invited me over before but I had something serious to do. When I got there, she was so awkward and distant that you would think that she was another person. I must say that two of her roommate’s a.k.a best friends were there but I’m good friends with them so I wouldn’t think it would matter.

I’ve heard from her friends that she’s a little strange around men and apparently, many of the guys she’s been with are scared off because acts so distant so I know I need to use this to my advantage but incorporating it is a problem.

I’m just a little confused with the situation. I mean, she is not the only girl that I’m “gaming” so I’m not completely hopeless but I want to make dealing with this girl my new objective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah perhaps calling out on her actions would be the best way to handle the situation with this girl.
 
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