"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you want me, stop being flakey

challice

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Let me firstly say that this post is in connection with This one since I’m talking about the same person.

I haven't been able to really set up anything with her because she works everyday in our next door state, which is about an hour away in good traffic so by the time she gets home; it’s usually about 11PM and she has to wake up early for the next day.

As I mentioned before, she lives about 15 minutes away though. I usually just see her when I go out at nights but when I do see her, she’ll basically give me all the attention and usually blow off other guys just to talk or dance with me so obviously IL is high or at least seems high.

Now on to my scenario, she always decides to go home with her friend at the end of the night and I’ve kiss closed her twice now, Friday being the last time. On Saturday, I called her up saying that I wanted to come over to her place, she has invited me over before but I had something serious to do. When I got there, she was so awkward and distant that you would think that she was another person. I must say that two of her roommate’s a.k.a best friends were there but I’m good friends with them so I wouldn’t think it would matter.

I’ve heard from her friends that she’s a little strange around men and apparently, many of the guys she’s been with are scared off because acts so distant so I know I need to use this to my advantage but incorporating it is a problem.

I’m just a little confused with the situation. I mean, she is not the only girl that I’m “gaming” so I’m not completely hopeless but I want to make dealing with this girl my new objective.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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challice

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Yeah perhaps calling out on her actions would be the best way to handle the situation with this girl.
 
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