"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you sue someone...

cola

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So let's say I sue someone, and the judge awards me 3,000,000$. The person who I won the case against
Doesn't have it, or even close and probably never will..

How will I get paid?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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You won't. You can't squeeze water from a stone. If you really push it, you can get them back into court again and have a judge order them to go look for a job. But they are just going to slip and fall on their first day, so they can apply for a disability check that you won't be able to garnish. Suing poor people is pointless; that's why most lawsuits are against insurance companies and large corporations - they have the money.
 

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I sued a small business back in 2013 and won. I didn't have any trouble collecting the money once I won in court. And I didn't think my judgement was anything really in the big scheme of money, it was no 3 million dollars, but it was enough to shut their business down not 3 weeks later. Through the grapevine I heard that the owner, a woman, as so stressed out over my lawsuit and loosing that she just couldn't mentally function anymore so she had to close shop. lol

Lesson: never do business with a woman
 
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