frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok..ur cool...a guy comes and spreads bad advice..he has been doing it since he joined the forum.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you look like a nerd, you're screwed
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
someperson1987
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IMO, Great advice.Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
you just learned that?Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
Last time I checked girls had to do the same thing to be hot including wear makeup.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't have 10 different names to repost the same thing. But I think this message is really imporant so I'm recycling it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.