frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok..ur cool...a guy comes and spreads bad advice..he has been doing it since he joined the forum.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you look like a nerd, you're screwed
- Thread starter chad2k5
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
someperson1987
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IMO, Great advice.Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
you just learned that?Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
See, I realized something. If you took james bond, gave him a gut, shaggy hair, bad posture, pale skin and made him fidget, he would not be hot. In the same vein: If you took the above guy, made him exercise, stand up straight, gave him a bangin hair cut and wardrobe, he would be "hot". As long as you're not to extremely odd looking, you can become attractive.
Girls are born hot, guys learn to be.
Game, blouses...
Last time I checked girls had to do the same thing to be hot including wear makeup.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't have 10 different names to repost the same thing. But I think this message is really imporant so I'm recycling it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.