"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If You Leave The House, Girls Will Approach

kody_starr

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I want to take a seminar or two this summer for enrichment. Also, to have more of a social life obviously. I'm kind of a workaholic by nature, so in the past year or so, I haven't gone out much. But the past few days, in seeking out a seminar I like, I've been meeting lots of people.

Actually four girls have approached in just the past two days, and many more are staring or just standing nearby, waiting for me to speak to them.

This is really surprising to me as I have not been hitting the gym as hard as in years past, and my belly is slightly doughy as a result. I'm working out more now, but still.

I recommend everyone get an active social life whether it's volunteering taking classes, playing sports, or whatever. You are bound to meet people. And those people will know other people and so on. It's very easy to network, and it's expected.

I think this is a much better long term strategy as opposed to cold approaching. I'm not opposed to cold approaching but depending upon your personality and your social environment, creating enduring networks may be much more valuable in the long term.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cinamon

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good for you! You have a way with words (douhgy belly), must use that the first chance i get ;)
 

kody_starr

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lol, as in pillsbury dough boy. But seriously, I'm working on getting my weight back down to my earlier weight, and I've already gotten results!
 
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