"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you know her trauma

jhonny9546

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I've heard many people say that if you know her trauma, you would own her.

This is interesting because knowing about what a person fear and desire, is by asking him/her, but knowing what a person fear and desire, is by asking him/her inconcious.

Have you ever read the book "asylum" by patrick mcgrath?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sure. If her trauma allows you to manipulate her into slavery, she's too broken to function as a woman. And you're likely to harm any reputation you have by abusing her trauma.
A women like this shouldn't be considered even for an STR.
How do you know a women trauma it's a red flag?
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
"Have you read Machiavelli?" Interestingly,I remember reading that your Nations own Spinoza,thought many of Machiavellis ideas were just plain common sense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi Amsterdam,
Actually a supportive point!
 

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How does a nation own Spinoza? He was a philosopher but don’t believe anyone owned him
 
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