"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you know her trauma

jhonny9546

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I've heard many people say that if you know her trauma, you would own her.

This is interesting because knowing about what a person fear and desire, is by asking him/her, but knowing what a person fear and desire, is by asking him/her inconcious.

Have you ever read the book "asylum" by patrick mcgrath?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sure. If her trauma allows you to manipulate her into slavery, she's too broken to function as a woman. And you're likely to harm any reputation you have by abusing her trauma.
A women like this shouldn't be considered even for an STR.
How do you know a women trauma it's a red flag?
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
"Have you read Machiavelli?" Interestingly,I remember reading that your Nations own Spinoza,thought many of Machiavellis ideas were just plain common sense.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Amsterdam,
Actually a supportive point!
 

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How does a nation own Spinoza? He was a philosopher but don’t believe anyone owned him
 
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