Glassguy
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Guys this is the thing-
You want to have the POWER. Not the woman. Especially in this situation.
You shouldnt want the power over her......you should have the power so that you have power over yourself and your own actions. The aftermath of that is what sends her hamster into orbit. And that's tough shyte because she chose this, not you.
You can control yourself and nothing more. This is why a strong frame is always important. It keeps you from going into hyper chase mode when the chick starts fading out, keeps your eyes on other options, etc.
They are ALL easily replaced. You quicker you realize that the better off you will be.
I am all for LTR's but at the moment I choose to spin plates and have a rotation. Its just what fits my lifestyle at this point in the game. I am not jaded or anything, it just works. It fits my personality.
In a LTR, spinning plates, rotations, etc you MUST control the trump card which is the ability to walk away and be dust in the wind if and when a woman starts to show signs up an upcoming break up, is disrespectful, etc.
Without that, you are nothing more than a "yes" man beta who will continue to get railroaded by these women.
You want to have the POWER. Not the woman. Especially in this situation.
You shouldnt want the power over her......you should have the power so that you have power over yourself and your own actions. The aftermath of that is what sends her hamster into orbit. And that's tough shyte because she chose this, not you.
You can control yourself and nothing more. This is why a strong frame is always important. It keeps you from going into hyper chase mode when the chick starts fading out, keeps your eyes on other options, etc.
They are ALL easily replaced. You quicker you realize that the better off you will be.
I am all for LTR's but at the moment I choose to spin plates and have a rotation. Its just what fits my lifestyle at this point in the game. I am not jaded or anything, it just works. It fits my personality.
In a LTR, spinning plates, rotations, etc you MUST control the trump card which is the ability to walk away and be dust in the wind if and when a woman starts to show signs up an upcoming break up, is disrespectful, etc.
Without that, you are nothing more than a "yes" man beta who will continue to get railroaded by these women.