"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If You Have Sex You Need To Read This

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Okay, I was pretty scared after reading Blue's problem here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=64215
His girlfriend was on the pill, yet she still got pregnant. It's probably the worst days of their lives right now, and I want to inform you all of something that you always need to do before having sex.

Whether or not your girl is on the pill, patch, shot, or any other form of birth control, you should ALWAYS USE SPERMICIDE! Even if you're wearing a condom. There are many different types (gel, foam, film, bullets), but the foam version is the best because it's the easiest to use and it also acts as lubricant.

The way it works is it contains the chemical, nonoxynol-9, that is also found in most condoms. Also, it goes up the cervix and forms a barrier blocking the sperm from entering the uterus.

It costs less than $10 for something like 50 uses. You can get it at a supermarket, Walgreens, Savon, or any other drug store.

By itself, spermicide is around 80% effective, so when you combine it with other methods like the patch or condoms, it is basically foolproof. It's like wearing a seat belt and having an air bag in a car.

Just wanted to help you guys out and prevent something like that from happaning to you guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sex stuff = Anything Else.
 

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It was probably her fault for taking the pill like a moron. It's something like 99.8% effective if taken properly, the 0.2% being women with particular hormonal problems or even women who got pregnant and then started taking the pill. If you're a dumb@ss about your pill (i.e. not taking it every 24 hours or every day) then you're much more likely to get pregnant.

Sucks being a guy, no way to really know.
 

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Be careful...condoms with spermicide, from what I've heard, should only be used once or twice a day. If you use a lot of them in a short span of time, it makes you vulnerable to infections.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Be careful...condoms with spermicide, from what I've heard, should only be used once or twice a day. If you use a lot of them in a short span of time, it makes you vulnerable to infections.
There's also no hard evidence to suggest that condoms with a spermicide lubricant are more effective at preventing pregnancy than simple lubricated condoms, so if you're going to go the spermicide route, get the foam or whatever.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bottom line________ if your having sex theres always that chance. If your ready enough to have sex you should be ready enough to deal with the consequences.
 

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The condoms with spermacide on them are useless. (ok, not USELESS, they're still condoms, but the spermacide does nothing. use a seperate spermacide).

But unfortuneately, a lot of people are allergic or sensitive to spermacide.

I think you should know BEFORE you have sex with someone, what would happen if they got pregnant. That is, NOTHING is 100% effective but abstinance... so you should discuss it and be prepared for anything BEFORE it happens.

A scary story ~ My friend got pregnant ON THE PILL (yes she took it properly), WITH A CONDOM, by a guy who had ONE TESTICAL.

Moral: Anything is possible.
 
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Celibacy - Saves lives!!

Black Eyed Peas Rock!!
 
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Anal sex = 100% effective against pregnancy.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anal sex rocks!!

but hurt like sh*t

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu


A scary story ~ My friend got pregnant ON THE PILL (yes she took it properly), WITH A CONDOM, by a guy who had ONE TESTICAL.

Moral: Anything is possible.
HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
 
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