"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If You Have Sex You Need To Read This

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Okay, I was pretty scared after reading Blue's problem here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=64215
His girlfriend was on the pill, yet she still got pregnant. It's probably the worst days of their lives right now, and I want to inform you all of something that you always need to do before having sex.

Whether or not your girl is on the pill, patch, shot, or any other form of birth control, you should ALWAYS USE SPERMICIDE! Even if you're wearing a condom. There are many different types (gel, foam, film, bullets), but the foam version is the best because it's the easiest to use and it also acts as lubricant.

The way it works is it contains the chemical, nonoxynol-9, that is also found in most condoms. Also, it goes up the cervix and forms a barrier blocking the sperm from entering the uterus.

It costs less than $10 for something like 50 uses. You can get it at a supermarket, Walgreens, Savon, or any other drug store.

By itself, spermicide is around 80% effective, so when you combine it with other methods like the patch or condoms, it is basically foolproof. It's like wearing a seat belt and having an air bag in a car.

Just wanted to help you guys out and prevent something like that from happaning to you guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sex stuff = Anything Else.
 

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It was probably her fault for taking the pill like a moron. It's something like 99.8% effective if taken properly, the 0.2% being women with particular hormonal problems or even women who got pregnant and then started taking the pill. If you're a dumb@ss about your pill (i.e. not taking it every 24 hours or every day) then you're much more likely to get pregnant.

Sucks being a guy, no way to really know.
 

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Be careful...condoms with spermicide, from what I've heard, should only be used once or twice a day. If you use a lot of them in a short span of time, it makes you vulnerable to infections.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Be careful...condoms with spermicide, from what I've heard, should only be used once or twice a day. If you use a lot of them in a short span of time, it makes you vulnerable to infections.
There's also no hard evidence to suggest that condoms with a spermicide lubricant are more effective at preventing pregnancy than simple lubricated condoms, so if you're going to go the spermicide route, get the foam or whatever.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bottom line________ if your having sex theres always that chance. If your ready enough to have sex you should be ready enough to deal with the consequences.
 

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The condoms with spermacide on them are useless. (ok, not USELESS, they're still condoms, but the spermacide does nothing. use a seperate spermacide).

But unfortuneately, a lot of people are allergic or sensitive to spermacide.

I think you should know BEFORE you have sex with someone, what would happen if they got pregnant. That is, NOTHING is 100% effective but abstinance... so you should discuss it and be prepared for anything BEFORE it happens.

A scary story ~ My friend got pregnant ON THE PILL (yes she took it properly), WITH A CONDOM, by a guy who had ONE TESTICAL.

Moral: Anything is possible.
 
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Celibacy - Saves lives!!

Black Eyed Peas Rock!!
 
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Anal sex = 100% effective against pregnancy.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anal sex rocks!!

but hurt like sh*t

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu


A scary story ~ My friend got pregnant ON THE PILL (yes she took it properly), WITH A CONDOM, by a guy who had ONE TESTICAL.

Moral: Anything is possible.
HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
 
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