"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you had had no approach anxiety at all...

Target_100

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Then you could have approached 100 pretty girls every day without getting any negative feelings about rejection and so forth.

Thats 700 approaches a week.

Surely it would be possible to get at least 150+ phone numbers, set up at least 50 dates and nail at least one or two new hot chicks every week.

You'd have to flake on a lot of dates, and just go on the ones with the hotest girls.

Social skills vould be though the roof as you'd have to socialize with mad amounts of different personalities.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quiksilver

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So try it out... I have no approach anxiety anymore, but I've never been so desperate in my social standings that I needed to go up to random people on the street that I know nothing about.

Here's a better idea:

Start five new hobbies that you have to get together with people during the week. Examples are.. learn spanish, take dance classes, take bartending/beer pouring classes, join a co-ed sports team, etc.

Make a point of going up to all the classy girls in those circles and approaching them. That way you are already on equal footing instead of validating yourself to some random cat plugged into her ipod and thinking "who is this guy?"
 

Target_100

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What I'm trying to say is that if one had no approach anxiety, the skills vould come naturally as one vould get lots of experience with talking to girls.

Not being a complete weirdo + no approach anxiety = lots of nice ass.

Thats just my theory on this.
 
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