"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you had had no approach anxiety at all...

Target_100

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Then you could have approached 100 pretty girls every day without getting any negative feelings about rejection and so forth.

Thats 700 approaches a week.

Surely it would be possible to get at least 150+ phone numbers, set up at least 50 dates and nail at least one or two new hot chicks every week.

You'd have to flake on a lot of dates, and just go on the ones with the hotest girls.

Social skills vould be though the roof as you'd have to socialize with mad amounts of different personalities.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quiksilver

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So try it out... I have no approach anxiety anymore, but I've never been so desperate in my social standings that I needed to go up to random people on the street that I know nothing about.

Here's a better idea:

Start five new hobbies that you have to get together with people during the week. Examples are.. learn spanish, take dance classes, take bartending/beer pouring classes, join a co-ed sports team, etc.

Make a point of going up to all the classy girls in those circles and approaching them. That way you are already on equal footing instead of validating yourself to some random cat plugged into her ipod and thinking "who is this guy?"
 

Target_100

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What I'm trying to say is that if one had no approach anxiety, the skills vould come naturally as one vould get lots of experience with talking to girls.

Not being a complete weirdo + no approach anxiety = lots of nice ass.

Thats just my theory on this.
 
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