"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you had a year to do anything you wanted, what would you do? GAP YEAR

elmnick

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If you had a year (and a bit) to do anything you wanted, what would you do? I'm in that situation probably (by choice) as I want to take a gap year between school and uni for a couple of reasons, such as wanting a break before embarking on five years studying for medicine, wanting to broaden my middle class middle of the road mind and see the world, and to mature a bit as I hhave always been one of the youngest in my year and do look young.
Financially I'm not in the situation where I need to raise money to pay for uni but the year does need to not lose me any money and any money raised would be nice.
I'm not stuck for ideas, there are endless possibilities (although not endless money), but I'm wondering what other people would do (I will be 18 btw) if they had a similar opportunity.
Has anyone done a gap year and if so what did you do and what did you get out of it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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I'd actually like to be in one of those iron man competitions I saw on tv a while ago where people ran this marathon.

Thats got to be the ultimate test of mental and physical endurance plus you get to be on tv and potentially inspire a huge amount of people if you make it past the finish line.

I'd imagine it'd take a year to train for one of those and I'd so love to do this.
 

ValleyDJing

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Wouldn't mind taking a year off to get drunk, smoke weed, party, and f--- as often as possible. Oh wait, that's what I'm doing already. lol!
 

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Bike, run, ski, shoot photography. Basically I'd do in great abundance the things I can do now, but not as much as I would if I weren't in University.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I was 19 I lived in Ireland for a year. One of the best things I've ever done.

I highly recommend going and living in another country if you can.
 

iqqi

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^^^ Did you get a job? Did you have money beforehand? Give us some details, lad! :)

I want to move overseas for a bit, but hear that it is next to impossible for americans. you can't get a work visa, so you have to work under the table... which intimidates me a tad bit.
 
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