"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you had a year to do anything you wanted, what would you do? GAP YEAR

elmnick

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If you had a year (and a bit) to do anything you wanted, what would you do? I'm in that situation probably (by choice) as I want to take a gap year between school and uni for a couple of reasons, such as wanting a break before embarking on five years studying for medicine, wanting to broaden my middle class middle of the road mind and see the world, and to mature a bit as I hhave always been one of the youngest in my year and do look young.
Financially I'm not in the situation where I need to raise money to pay for uni but the year does need to not lose me any money and any money raised would be nice.
I'm not stuck for ideas, there are endless possibilities (although not endless money), but I'm wondering what other people would do (I will be 18 btw) if they had a similar opportunity.
Has anyone done a gap year and if so what did you do and what did you get out of it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KontrollerX

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I'd actually like to be in one of those iron man competitions I saw on tv a while ago where people ran this marathon.

Thats got to be the ultimate test of mental and physical endurance plus you get to be on tv and potentially inspire a huge amount of people if you make it past the finish line.

I'd imagine it'd take a year to train for one of those and I'd so love to do this.
 

ValleyDJing

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Wouldn't mind taking a year off to get drunk, smoke weed, party, and f--- as often as possible. Oh wait, that's what I'm doing already. lol!
 

Kidfabulous

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Bike, run, ski, shoot photography. Basically I'd do in great abundance the things I can do now, but not as much as I would if I weren't in University.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SparkleMotion

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When I was 19 I lived in Ireland for a year. One of the best things I've ever done.

I highly recommend going and living in another country if you can.
 

iqqi

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^^^ Did you get a job? Did you have money beforehand? Give us some details, lad! :)

I want to move overseas for a bit, but hear that it is next to impossible for americans. you can't get a work visa, so you have to work under the table... which intimidates me a tad bit.
 
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