"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you escalate enough?

Naughty Ninja

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How many of you feel alot of women who are in the "low" numbers of sexual partners would be much higher if more men escalated with them?

Do you feel alot of these women are in the low end of sexual partners because guys in the past didn't follow through with sexual escalation enough?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're overthinking thinking this sh!t.

If they wanted to be whor!s they would do the escalation themselves.
 

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Guess I haven't got too much to complain about and it's a waste repeating the same old advice that good posters give to others and going in circles.

Just a thought I had to have a somewhat different topic than usual..
 

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Most ppl with low sex partners are serial monogamists, so if guys that didnt escalate, and missed on a girl for that, would've escalated instead that probably meant they would´ve gotten the girl for a while, instead of some other guy who 2 weeks later would do the escalation. But time being a limited resource the final number would be aproximately the same, I suppose.
 
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