"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you escalate enough?

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How many of you feel alot of women who are in the "low" numbers of sexual partners would be much higher if more men escalated with them?

Do you feel alot of these women are in the low end of sexual partners because guys in the past didn't follow through with sexual escalation enough?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're overthinking thinking this sh!t.

If they wanted to be whor!s they would do the escalation themselves.
 
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Guess I haven't got too much to complain about and it's a waste repeating the same old advice that good posters give to others and going in circles.

Just a thought I had to have a somewhat different topic than usual..
 
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Most ppl with low sex partners are serial monogamists, so if guys that didnt escalate, and missed on a girl for that, would've escalated instead that probably meant they would´ve gotten the girl for a while, instead of some other guy who 2 weeks later would do the escalation. But time being a limited resource the final number would be aproximately the same, I suppose.
 
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