"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theunflushables

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I think you may be a tad bit over sensitive in this case.

What if the man and the woman were reversed? Would you be thinking how wrong the man is or thinking "good for him"?

As for amorality, amorality is part of the natural order of things. A lion doesn't think about the morality or immorality of killing a gazelle. If he did, he'd go hungry while having a philosophical debate.

The concepts of what is moral and immoral are just societal constructs.
 

(JJ)

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^^ true statement.

and unflushables, societal constructs keep us from doing a lot of stupid things that might happen if we merely followed our animal instincts. after all, that ability to HAVE that philosophical conversation is what separates us from them.

bonobo monkeys, which are 98% genetically identical to humans, have ridiculous amounts of sex with each other, all day, every day. by your logic, we should be doing the same thing because society can't come up with any kind of limitations that are worth anything...

while i know this ad was supposedly made "in good fun," i just cant help but get a little upset about it. that ad, in addition to the corona ad campaign where the woman makes the man look like a chump on the beach (i can find links if you want) are brainwashing people like my twelve year old brother to think that this sort of behavior is the norm, when in reality we should expect better of our women!
 

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Meh, I still think that when people do so called "moral" deeds they are doing it with selfish motives. For example, someone who volunteers in a soup kitchen. Yeah, outwardly they are doing a good thing, but if they even have a brief feeling of satisfaction it becomes selfish motivation because they are doing it to feel good.

As for "brain washing" that can be said about anything. If your brother was constantly bombarded by Barney Stinson type characters you'd see his behavioral patterns change. Be a good role model to your brother and teach him to be a strong male and to not let popular media effect or guide his life choices.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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(JJ) said:
saw this commercial today, and threw up a little in my mouth.

amorality of women in today's society astonishes me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpOPe5E1yJo

am i becoming overly sensitive?
So a commercial = women in today's society? You realize that commercials are fiction?

Although I have to say that I will never use Kayak because of this commercial.
 

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(JJ) said:
saw this commercial today, and threw up a little in my mouth.
I saw it today and I felt a slight movement in my pants at the sight of the beautiful woman.
 
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