"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOME OTHER ******* WHO WILL!!!!!!

This is especially true if she is a HB6+.

Don't think you are being humble and or meek if you are being hard on yourself and saying you are not good enough in this category, that category etc.

There is this HB7 at work that I kind of like but I haven't talked to her too much yet (I am new on the job). To make a long story short....as I was leaving work today.....I see another guy who works downstairs walk out with her and then he puts his arm around her waist for like 2 seconds before she gets in her car. They did not kiss each other though, so I am not sure if they are b/f and g/f.

ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy.

The point is..........

NOTHING WILL BURN YOUR ASS MORE AND LEAD TO SELF-HATE WHEN YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR AN ATTRACTIVE GIRL ONLY TO FIND OUT HER BOYFRIEND IS LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN YOURSELF.


I am not saying I am not good enough for this girl or if that guy was her actual boyfriend, but I am using this as an example.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stuka1939 said:
ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy
Than why is he gaming her and your not? He is probably slamming that pu$$y while you are just analyzing the situation. Another ground breaking mahon thread:crackup:
 

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lookyoung said:
Than why is he gaming her and your not? He is probably slamming that pu$$y while you are just analyzing the situation. Another ground breaking mahon thread:crackup:

Like I said. I just started working there 3 weeks ago and this girl works downstairs (I am on the second) and he works with her downstairs.

I was just using it as an example as it is on the unwise side to date girls from work.
 
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ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy.
Damn, you caught me!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You've got 2 inches on him and he's still getting her?

*GASP* Does this mean height isn't everything?? All your bull**** theories dumped on their ass with one example.

Time someone slapped a ban on this overbaked troll.
 

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WesCottII said:
You've got 2 inches on him and he's still getting her?

*GASP* Does this mean height isn't everything?? All your bull**** theories dumped on their ass with one example.

Time someone slapped a ban on this overbaked troll.
Height is a BIG DEAL you moron. Most of the studies originate from your country.
 

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HandyAndy said:
How tall are you?

5'11.5". According to stats, I am taller than 80% of all other males (which is a good place to be). These stats are definitely backed up when I go out in public. Most guys (60%) in the northeast tend to be between 5'8"-5'10".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HandyAndy said:
Do you have a site with a chart like that?

Your this much % taller than all other males sort of thing?
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
 

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stuka1939 said:
Height is a BIG DEAL you moron. Most of the studies originate from your country.
*GASP*

Must be true then if they originated from good old Blighty. I mean, when has a study EVER been wrong?

Your observations negate your studies genius. If height was so important shed've ditched him for a much taller man i.e YOU. She didn't. Oh wait, you havn't made a move, I think you've got toolitis, and all the height in the world won't get you a lay.
 

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stuka1939 said:
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
My bullsh!t detector is going off.
 

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stuka1939 said:
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
Yes im 6'2:up: I like being tall its pretty cool

96.8 of the population is shorter than me :p awesome
 

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Aside from the height bullsh*t, this is a great post. If a girl shows interest in you, don't be afraid to kino. Kiss her hand, it never fails! AND DO IT SOFTLY DAMMIT! Strike while the iron's hot!

The point is, if you pique a girl's interest, show that you are. Stop hiding motherf**ker. This means alpha male qualities, such as kino, c+f, ball busting, and not putting the woman on a pedestal. You have a much better chance.

Learn body language tips to show interest too! Actions speak louder than words! And women can read that crap much better than men. And don't fake it till you make it, one slip and your potential boyfriend status with the girl will be cancelled like Chicago Hope. No hope for your dumba$$!

Now keep it alpha. Keep it alpha!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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