"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOME OTHER ******* WHO WILL!!!!!!

This is especially true if she is a HB6+.

Don't think you are being humble and or meek if you are being hard on yourself and saying you are not good enough in this category, that category etc.

There is this HB7 at work that I kind of like but I haven't talked to her too much yet (I am new on the job). To make a long story short....as I was leaving work today.....I see another guy who works downstairs walk out with her and then he puts his arm around her waist for like 2 seconds before she gets in her car. They did not kiss each other though, so I am not sure if they are b/f and g/f.

ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy.

The point is..........

NOTHING WILL BURN YOUR ASS MORE AND LEAD TO SELF-HATE WHEN YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR AN ATTRACTIVE GIRL ONLY TO FIND OUT HER BOYFRIEND IS LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN YOURSELF.


I am not saying I am not good enough for this girl or if that guy was her actual boyfriend, but I am using this as an example.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stuka1939 said:
ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy
Than why is he gaming her and your not? He is probably slamming that pu$$y while you are just analyzing the situation. Another ground breaking mahon thread:crackup:
 

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lookyoung said:
Than why is he gaming her and your not? He is probably slamming that pu$$y while you are just analyzing the situation. Another ground breaking mahon thread:crackup:

Like I said. I just started working there 3 weeks ago and this girl works downstairs (I am on the second) and he works with her downstairs.

I was just using it as an example as it is on the unwise side to date girls from work.
 
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ANWAY,,,,,I have about 2-3 inches on this guy, he wears glasses and has thinning hair. I am no GQ model, but I would say I am definitely better looking than this guy.
Damn, you caught me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You've got 2 inches on him and he's still getting her?

*GASP* Does this mean height isn't everything?? All your bull**** theories dumped on their ass with one example.

Time someone slapped a ban on this overbaked troll.
 

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WesCottII said:
You've got 2 inches on him and he's still getting her?

*GASP* Does this mean height isn't everything?? All your bull**** theories dumped on their ass with one example.

Time someone slapped a ban on this overbaked troll.
Height is a BIG DEAL you moron. Most of the studies originate from your country.
 

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HandyAndy said:
How tall are you?

5'11.5". According to stats, I am taller than 80% of all other males (which is a good place to be). These stats are definitely backed up when I go out in public. Most guys (60%) in the northeast tend to be between 5'8"-5'10".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy said:
Do you have a site with a chart like that?

Your this much % taller than all other males sort of thing?
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
 

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Height is a BIG DEAL you moron. Most of the studies originate from your country.
*GASP*

Must be true then if they originated from good old Blighty. I mean, when has a study EVER been wrong?

Your observations negate your studies genius. If height was so important shed've ditched him for a much taller man i.e YOU. She didn't. Oh wait, you havn't made a move, I think you've got toolitis, and all the height in the world won't get you a lay.
 

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stuka1939 said:
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
My bullsh!t detector is going off.
 

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stuka1939 said:
Here is one and there are a few others out there.

Another window should pop up after you open this.


http://www.shortsupport.org/Research/analyzer.html


I've read multiple times and only 2.5% of the US male population is 6'2" and over and only 14.5% of all US adult males are 6'0 and above.

Didn't you once say you were 6'2"?
Yes im 6'2:up: I like being tall its pretty cool

96.8 of the population is shorter than me :p awesome
 

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Aside from the height bullsh*t, this is a great post. If a girl shows interest in you, don't be afraid to kino. Kiss her hand, it never fails! AND DO IT SOFTLY DAMMIT! Strike while the iron's hot!

The point is, if you pique a girl's interest, show that you are. Stop hiding motherf**ker. This means alpha male qualities, such as kino, c+f, ball busting, and not putting the woman on a pedestal. You have a much better chance.

Learn body language tips to show interest too! Actions speak louder than words! And women can read that crap much better than men. And don't fake it till you make it, one slip and your potential boyfriend status with the girl will be cancelled like Chicago Hope. No hope for your dumba$$!

Now keep it alpha. Keep it alpha!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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