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It's crazy how much better a man looks when he becomes lean and muscular vs chubby

- your face looks much much better. A very lean (say 9-10% bodyfat) male face looks rugged and masculine and signals health/high testosterone vs a chunky face

- your face looks better as a result of a thicker neck - this is a little known fact but a thick neck makes your face look much more handsome

- your complexion looks a lot better - eating healthy is 1 thing but working out hard stimulates blood flow/collagen/etc...


perfect example



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I have found it the opposite. Female sociopath and solipsism cannot escape self. When I was 8% body fat, I pulled but, I also noticed it made a lot of girls more self conscious. Also, with western women and their predisposition to bulking season especially after 23, its not a good sign. I bulk and get deezed and noticed women take notice. Still, I prefer being shredded. Just, the reasoning for anything should be your own agenda not because it suits the female imperative of sloot gonna sloot then play homemaker when her best days are over.
 

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I have found it the opposite. Female sociopath and solipsism cannot escape self. When I was 8% body fat, I pulled but, I also noticed it made a lot of girls more self conscious. Also, with western women and their predisposition to bulking season especially after 23, its not a good sign. I bulk and get deezed and noticed women take notice. Still, I prefer being shredded. Just, the reasoning for anything should be your own agenda not because it suits the female imperative of sloot gonna sloot then play homemaker when her best days are over.
Your right alot of 9 and 10 want to be the better looking one in the relationship. It's why it's alot less games with a 6 or 7 when your very handsome. Your their trophy.
 

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Talk about puberty done right. That dude is an Indian version of me lol. Even looks somewhat similar.
 

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He's either been hitting some serious steroids or he's had plastic surgery. His jaw/chin is completely different and his skull looks like it's twice the size it was.

It's true that being leaner does make your face look more handsome though. When I was chubby I never felt good looking, once I cut enough to get a really defined jaw and cheekbones I looked a whole world better.
 

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He's either been hitting some serious steroids or he's had plastic surgery. His jaw/chin is completely different and his skull looks like it's twice the size it was.
the first picture is far away, second picture is up close - hence the difference in headsize.

you can tell he has good jaw/chin genetics in the first picture, he is just fat. I was 245 lbs in high school and I'm 190 now. My transformation is more extreme than that. I had a double chin and now I have a very strong jawline and prominent chin
 

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Agreed! I think a good bodyfat percentage to aim for is 12-14%. When you get too lean, some tend to look skeletony. Also, as you get older and your skin thins out, it tends to be less attractive. Good comparison though for how the same person can look dramatically different when they focus on it.
 

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Agreed! I think a good bodyfat percentage to aim for is 12-14%. When you get too lean, some tend to look skeletony. Also, as you get older and your skin thins out, it tends to be less attractive. Good comparison though for how the same person can look dramatically different when they focus on it.
10 is good, although it depends on your features

I have heavily masculine features/wide jawline/thicker skin/strong chin so low body fat percentage looks good on me. If you have fine features/narrow chin, etc... you may be better off at 12%
 

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This is very true, Ive worked out non stop for 2 years now, Im 240lb 6'2

I now turn down the 6's, that i used to have to work hard to get, once in a blue moon! they worship me its great

I cant say i get 10's , tbh i dont go out much recently my daughters been stopping, i go and practice my mindset on the women in the shops so im sharp

but ive stuck to my routine of working out and less alcohol , so im looking even better everyday for when i do go out
 

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Your right alot of 9 and 10 want to be the better looking one in the relationship. It's why it's alot less games with a 6 or 7 when your very handsome. Your their trophy.
Its just all retarded. If you get the girl, you play into her little solipsism of fairytale. Sloot gonna sloot and then, white picket fence and dress time. Even more appalling is the cucks lining up for it. #MeToo + female victimhood, divorce, cucking, bulking, women getting fat as ****, high kill count, running through dudes all the while a feminist, competing with the men for the corner office until of course, the eggs go bad. Until biology and fertility fails her.

Outside following one's own biology blindly; women with their hypergamy or male's nature to spread the seed. Very few are unplugged and a free thinker. I want to smash just as much as the next man. Maybe more given the prevalence of low testosterone and beta males raised by single moms. Still, I have my own purpose and ambitions that supersede following my biology blindly.

If you get the girl, 99% of the time, she is at the tail end of her SMV or halfway retarded. She has her own little agenda and if she cannot go through with conning your ass into following, the laws and a few poked condoms will get you on her crash course.

After 7yrs of pickup, I can count on one hand the amount of women worthy of the time after nutting. Even fewer if you see them present day. I remember getting a throater from a girl 16 in my teens. Today, she wears a moo moo, has 4 kids all diff men, and she is weighing in at numbers professional WWE wrestlers would be intimidated by.

A common theme? The inability for women to think for themselves, take responsibility or any sort of accountability. Why bother? Daddy government. When the welfare state crashes, when war happens or a ****ing Zombie apocalypse hits, mark my word. Women be back in the kitchen making sandwiches. Reminds me of the newest Jurassic park movie. Feminist woman lead. Don't need a man. Running around in heels and then, dinosaurs break free and go nuts. Molly made has her ****ing apron on back in the kitchen on sandwich duty chained to the kitchen sink and bed post. Classy.
 

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Still, I have my own purpose and ambitions that supersede following my biology blindly.
Tangent but this reminded me of a brilliant quote, can't remember what it was from. Paraphrasing:

"It is the mark of a great man that he can divorce himself from personal, base desires and embrace what it is industrious and right to do."

If you think about it, I think that's the one defining trait that separates someone who is successful, brave, smart and honest from people who aren't. The ability to consciously rise above your animal instincts to f*ck, be violent, get drunk constantly, fall into depravity...and instead do extraordinary things that take willpower and hard work.

Anyway that's the end of my sermon today, hahaha.
 

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Tangent but this reminded me of a brilliant quote, can't remember what it was from. Paraphrasing:

"It is the mark of a great man that he can divorce himself from personal, base desires and embrace what it is industrious and right to do."

If you think about it, I think that's the one defining trait that separates someone who is successful, brave, smart and honest from people who aren't. The ability to consciously rise above your animal instincts to f*ck, be violent, get drunk constantly, fall into depravity...and instead do extraordinary things that take willpower and hard work.

Anyway that's the end of my sermon today, hahaha.
Cheers mate.

If I would tell my younger self anything, it would be to call ALL IN on my business venture sooner. Women come and go. Most are a distraction and worse, many are a ****ing liability.

I'm out though. About to do errands, get babes, and run my business.
 

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Any man probably wants the hottest girl possible. Why not work out and set yourself as an equal to a hotter girl. No reason not to do this other than pure laziness and undeservedness.
 

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It's crazy how much better a man looks when he becomes lean and muscular vs chubby

- your face looks much much better. A very lean (say 9-10% bodyfat) male face looks rugged and masculine and signals health/high testosterone vs a chunky face

- your face looks better as a result of a thicker neck - this is a little known fact but a thick neck makes your face look much more handsome

- your complexion looks a lot better - eating healthy is 1 thing but working out hard stimulates blood flow/collagen/etc...


perfect example



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wtf lmao is this the same guy


PS you looked in school like the guy I punched and then he called police



but good thread.

i however disagree thinking its only gym influence.


the first photo guy looks like numb, deppressed, or brain in fog, or brain in analytical state.


second one looks like he socialised a lot, so his brain went from analytical/deprresed to emotional/social
 

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wtf lmao is this the same guy


PS you looked in school like the guy I punched and then he called police



but good thread.

i however disagree thinking its only gym influence.


the first photo guy looks like numb, deppressed, or brain in fog, or brain in analytical state.


second one looks like he socialised a lot, so his brain went from analytical/deprresed to emotional/social
same guy but he is ripped/muscular, much better haircut and got rid of glasses
 

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Its just all retarded. If you get the girl, you play into her little solipsism of fairytale. Sloot gonna sloot and then, white picket fence and dress time. Even more appalling is the cucks lining up for it. #MeToo + female victimhood, divorce, cucking, bulking, women getting fat as ****, high kill count, running through dudes all the while a feminist, competing with the men for the corner office until of course, the eggs go bad. Until biology and fertility fails her.

Outside following one's own biology blindly; women with their hypergamy or male's nature to spread the seed. Very few are unplugged and a free thinker. I want to smash just as much as the next man. Maybe more given the prevalence of low testosterone and beta males raised by single moms. Still, I have my own purpose and ambitions that supersede following my biology blindly.

If you get the girl, 99% of the time, she is at the tail end of her SMV or halfway retarded. She has her own little agenda and if she cannot go through with conning your ass into following, the laws and a few poked condoms will get you on her crash course.

After 7yrs of pickup, I can count on one hand the amount of women worthy of the time after nutting. Even fewer if you see them present day. I remember getting a throater from a girl 16 in my teens. Today, she wears a moo moo, has 4 kids all diff men, and she is weighing in at numbers professional WWE wrestlers would be intimidated by.

A common theme? The inability for women to think for themselves, take responsibility or any sort of accountability. Why bother? Daddy government. When the welfare state crashes, when war happens or a ****ing Zombie apocalypse hits, mark my word. Women be back in the kitchen making sandwiches. Reminds me of the newest Jurassic park movie. Feminist woman lead. Don't need a man. Running around in heels and then, dinosaurs break free and go nuts. Molly made has her ****ing apron on back in the kitchen on sandwich duty chained to the kitchen sink and bed post. Classy.
Ha, you should make a movie with this story line.
 

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My damn fluctuates so damn much, I was 170 now I am 207. And I look chubby ish now and I hate it. Once I lose females attention starts pouring in, I just built to be lean and muscular.
 
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