If You Don't Date or Get Laid, Don't Give Advice

[davidcarr]

I only see 1 thread, aside from my own, with field reports. I don't see any lay reports.

This is a clear indication that no one else on this forum is actively dating. You can't get laid unless you actually go out to social events or otherwise get out of the house and meet women.

Perhaps you use online dating? That's a huge time sink. Good luck getting around all of the bots and fake profiles.

The key to this is to get out of the house, go somewhere where there are attractive women (or just women, period) and then make some attempt to get numbers, get dates and get laid.

When you don't get laid (and I have had dry spells like most guys and gals), you can get frustrated and angry and bitter. Don't be that loser. Be active and at least make an effort before you give advice.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Agreed. Also, the search function is your friend. So many threads are long drawn out rehashes of man meets woman...now what do I do......???

Just scrolling through the first few pages of the Don Juan Discussion forum will produce questions that are less unique & more universal than you might imagine.

There is a ton of information here. Take advantage of it. As you read threads you'll start to see who has good content & who doesn't.

 

[davidcarr]

I'm seeing threads like:

Should an adult date a child (25 and 16 years old)

Which girls get hit on more?

Have you ever dated a depressed girl?

Mega lotto

Killed by monkeys

Another day, another fattie txting you

 

[sosousage]

I'm seeing threads like:

Should an adult date a child (25 and 16 years old)

Which girls get hit on more?

Have you ever dated a depressed girl?

Mega lotto

Killed by monkeys

Another day, another fattie txting you

dayum man these are good threads what u want

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I'm seeing threads like:

You forgot all the threads that mainly complain about the lack of quality threads.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Some of us might be in LTRs and get laid plenty, but see no need to report on it.

 

[nicksaiz65]

As much as people complain about the forum, I think it’s fine. I’ve learned a lot from it and if I didn’t have it I probably wouldn’t be getting laid now lol

 

[davidcarr]

There are actually very few active dating discussion sites on the internet now, so perhaps I shouldn't be so harsh.

 

[davidcarr]

I can't edit the original post but I would have added a list of names of quality posters. So far:

Amante

Beexcellent

 

[zekko]

I can't edit the original post but I would have added a list of names of quality posters. So far:
Amante
Beexcellent

Beexcellent been posting a lot of lay reports?

 

[davidcarr]

Beexcellent been posting a lot of lay reports?

Haha, no I've just read a couple of her posts and they at least sounded coherent.

 

[zekko]

Haha, no I've just read a couple of her posts and they at least sounded coherent.

Coherent is good.

 

[Murk]

Who the fvck are you though Dave? What discussion have you contributed? So I don’t get sex because I don’t post “lay reports”?

These entitled sh1tposters I swear...

 

[Spaz]

It's okay to post examples, people can learn something.

Although I'm not a proponent of pua tactics but there's value in learning tricks of the "trade".

That's the easy part.

Pulling power is the easiest to learn.

But I think most here is interested in the staying power.

 

[Serenity]

I'm not contributing much in terms of field and lay reports, because I'm in an exclusive relationship and thus don't go on dates. That doesn't mean I don't know game. Much of it is just social skills which is useful throughout most interactions in life. Most of what I say is fairly accurate as it has a root in personal experiences and it seems others share those experiences as my posts are often liked.

I think I have more to offer in terms of how to keep a woman without compromising your manhood than I do regarding how to fvck random women. I don't really cater to the guys who just want to get laid and move on to the next, although I'm not against that (if they play fairly). It seems to me though that most guys here seek advice on how to keep rather than how to get.

 

[17 shots]

dayum man these are good threads what u want

Lmao

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Beexcellent been posting a lot of lay reports?

LMAO. You don’t remember the one where her man carried her into the ocean in her “one million dollar” (best dr evil voice) dress? You can bet the “old lady” got turned out proper that night after the viagra kicked in!

-Augustus-

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I'm not getting laid. Nor am I dating. That doesn't disqualify me from giving advice; I'm quite sure I've had more success with women than 99% of this forum put together. I can get laid, but I choose not to at the moment, focusing on other things. Call it voluntary celibacy.

What does disqualify someone, is when they are posting about making quite fundamental errors with women and seeking advice on the topic, then seem to think they can start dishing out advice to others

 

[Glassguy]

I actively date. Currently spinning 3 plates, banging them all here and there when I find time. Just smashed a chick that is quite a bit younger than me last night and no I dont have to ask if its acceptable since she is over 18.

I give advice from time to time on this board when I feel the person isnt trolling and is looking for legitimate advice. My advice isnt candy coated and many dudes get butthurt when I tell them the truth. Oh well. I am far too busy with my business, life and hobbies to come on here and broadcast "lay reports". I dont need questions answered and I dont need someone telling me that what I am doing is OK because what I do WORKS.

On rare occasion a chick throws me a curveball that I havent seen. Stuff like that is good discussion on here. This isnt a losers anonymous site, its a site for guys helping guys in how to do better than women.

Some guys get it and some guys dont. I certainly know which side of the fence I am on and I dont need to validate it or provide updates on smashing, for smashing is my validation.

I walk to the beat of my own drum and many other people on here should too instead of worrying what everyone else is doing.

Hope this helps lol.

 

[Mike32ct]

I posted a LR about a month ago.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/lr-liftoff-of-the-shuttel.252467/#post-2573888

I posted it mostly for fun and to give/receive encouragement. I have nothing to prove.