"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you suck at C&F, then don't bother. i really really think C&F is the core
in dating, b/c like deangelo said, it tells all the right things about you FAST.

of course, other stuff are important, but after i tried them all, nothing is
more FUN and EFFECTIVE as the our great fvcking ****y and funny.



i am practicing like i raise hell, girls do laugh around me, calling me smooth.
of course this don't happen all the time, so that is what im trying to do.

i know C&F in my head, everyone does. but what i really want to know
is how to make this thing natural, like i understand it.

if i know it in the brain, the C&F could freeze and not work in front of hottie
but if i know it in my mind, i will naturally act in that C&F way.

so show me some steps or guides to pull down the C&F from my brain to
my mind, so it's like i don't even have to try to be C&F, but i am C&F

help me out if you are good with C&F okay?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Espi said:
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read the Don Juan Bible for stuff about C/F

- comic_relief
 
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Its hard to help without given a context or situation.

C&F is something that you do on the spot, its the wit and humour that makes it work. Think fast.

girl: bla bla bla im boring
*zing something pops into my brain*
me: no i dont want to have sex with you
girl: bla blaaaaa
me: but im tired from all the sex with the other girls
girl: bla bla :(
me: ok fine maybe later

If your worried about pulling it off right or sounding natural, then you arent being ****y enough to do CF. Imagine you live in a dream world where you are the best, hottest and most important man alive and act in such a way to make it true.

C+F and Teasing are best friends btw.
 
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The problem is turning down the c+f at the appropriate time. I do c+f too hard, and lose them all the time.

But to answer your question, just hang out with really funny ball-busting witty people. It will rub off on you.

Also, read some comedy tutorials. Jeffy from RSD took a stand up comedy class once, and he said it stepped his game up in a HUGE way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, C&F is not the core to attracting women.... there are so many more factors that can contribute to heightening a woman's interest.

I'm not discounting the function of C&F, but if you're putting all your time into this area, you've still got a long way to go.
 
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