"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you suck at C&F, then don't bother. i really really think C&F is the core
in dating, b/c like deangelo said, it tells all the right things about you FAST.

of course, other stuff are important, but after i tried them all, nothing is
more FUN and EFFECTIVE as the our great fvcking ****y and funny.



i am practicing like i raise hell, girls do laugh around me, calling me smooth.
of course this don't happen all the time, so that is what im trying to do.

i know C&F in my head, everyone does. but what i really want to know
is how to make this thing natural, like i understand it.

if i know it in the brain, the C&F could freeze and not work in front of hottie
but if i know it in my mind, i will naturally act in that C&F way.

so show me some steps or guides to pull down the C&F from my brain to
my mind, so it's like i don't even have to try to be C&F, but i am C&F

help me out if you are good with C&F okay?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Espi said:
read the Don Juan Bible for stuff about C/F

- comic_relief
 

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Its hard to help without given a context or situation.

C&F is something that you do on the spot, its the wit and humour that makes it work. Think fast.

girl: bla bla bla im boring
*zing something pops into my brain*
me: no i dont want to have sex with you
girl: bla blaaaaa
me: but im tired from all the sex with the other girls
girl: bla bla :(
me: ok fine maybe later

If your worried about pulling it off right or sounding natural, then you arent being ****y enough to do CF. Imagine you live in a dream world where you are the best, hottest and most important man alive and act in such a way to make it true.

C+F and Teasing are best friends btw.
 

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The problem is turning down the c+f at the appropriate time. I do c+f too hard, and lose them all the time.

But to answer your question, just hang out with really funny ball-busting witty people. It will rub off on you.

Also, read some comedy tutorials. Jeffy from RSD took a stand up comedy class once, and he said it stepped his game up in a HUGE way.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No, C&F is not the core to attracting women.... there are so many more factors that can contribute to heightening a woman's interest.

I'm not discounting the function of C&F, but if you're putting all your time into this area, you've still got a long way to go.
 
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