"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If you could tell your younger self anything

Atom Smasher

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Realize that the opportunities of today will change or cease to exist in the future, so the time to seize them is when they appear. They are like clouds... take them when you come across them and don't wait.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To trust no one.

To understand, and accept that on a base level, we are alone in this world.

To do, and accomplish things that are to your own benefit first.

Dont feel guilt or shame when you reject other peoples offers, work against someone else's wishes, or make them do something they don't want to. Within reason, you should always operate to your mission and goals.

Do not help someone too much, for they may begin to resent you. The fact that you have more than them, and that you are above them causes this. Instead, help a little, and don't get top involved in their problems.

Surprisingly, friends are more likely to sabotage you. Always analyse and decipher how they truly feel about you. A true friend in this life is rare.

Accept, recognise, and learn other peoples manipulative and machiavellian ways. You will never be conned, tricked, or deceived. It will also help you understand how to be more successful in relationships, the workplace, business, and social situations. Of course, you don't want to go too far that it conflicts with your morals.
 

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This is a very interesting post if I have to say anything to younger me about sex it would be be very picky we sleep with every very picky we're friends are
 

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I would teach him all about BPD and save him the world of pain!
 
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