"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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IF you CANNOT get any girls anymore

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I actually had this in my mind today. After reading the post by kal-whats his face on giving up. I thought this would be the perfect thread to write.

This would be a scenario, and I want to see how the sosuavers would react to this. Hands off your ****s and on your keyboards guys, let your imaginations run.

Scenario : You cannot get any more women. God hates you, Cupid hates you, whatever. For some FREAKISH reason, you cannot get anymore girls. Do not question this. YOU CANNOT GET ANYMORE WOMEN. You can befriend them, in fact, they love that. But it is IMPOSSIBLE to get a girl to be romantically interested in you.

If you have a girl/many girls, they instantly break up with you...right now.

Question : How will you deal with the rest of your life?

You are at whatever age you are right now. Women are no longer romantically interested in you. Even hookers cannot have sex with you for money. But I will be nice and give you your hands.

How will you react?
e.g. your feelings as you read this

What will your following years be like?
e.g. rejection, how will you cope..

Will you ever give up on trying to get women?
seriously, I don't care if you try for the rest of your life, you will fail...

How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?
e.g. goals, dreams, career, etc

Please answer these questions honestly. I'm not asking for paragraphs, but express yourselves properly.

Now the very last question.

How do you see your life going?
e.g. goals, dreams, careers, etc

The same as the last question above, but with your current abilities to attract women.

I'm very interested in how you guys will answer these questions.

Ciao.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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not a thing would change in my life bud, i suppose i'd stop trying if i knew it was never going to happen... my goals in life would remain the same.
 

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I would join some extremist politic party or religion, win elections and/or do some revolution or coup d'etat and I would become dictator like Stalin, Adolf, Saddam, Kim or whoever.

Then as a dictator I would steal the game from other guys :box: :trouble: :kick:

No. Seriously, I would be a wandering kungfu monk helping people who need it and I would do some pretty cool shyt aside too.
 

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Yeah I have to admit a lot of the motivation behind what I do is to eventually attract a high-value mate and make babies... without women I guess I'd have to settle for companionship and the (other) simple pleasures in life..
 

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I'd become a real life Ryu.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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- How will you react?

I wouldn't be shocked. It's not different from my situation right now. I'd probably say "So, what actually changed?"

- What will your following years be like?

They might even be better. As I know I have no chance whatsoever, I'd stop trying to push myself into trying to change and doing something that really goes with me instead.

- Will you ever give up on trying to get women?

Maybe, the subconscious is really tough on that. But concsiously, I would stop. Well, I pretty much gave up already, so it would be more of the same.

- How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?

My goals and my life have never been tied to women. And if they stay like that forever I would not even notice it, I guess.

~N
 

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Nygard said:
- What will your following years be like?

They might even be better. As I know I have no chance whatsoever, I'd stop trying to push myself into trying to change and doing something that really goes with me instead.

~N
Taa daa, live it like so.
 

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bump
 

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- How will you react?
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

- What will your following years be like?
Martial arts, wanking, weights, loads of box sets of tv series, anti depressants.


- Will you ever give up on trying to get women?
Focus all my effort into pulling trannys.


- How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?
I'd get loads of hobbies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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killahpl said:
I'd kill myself, thank you very much.
To hell with that! If you can't get women anymore, you better focus on your career and make great money!

@ Kirro: Ryu from Street Fighter or Ryu from Ninja Gaiden?
 

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Best thing that has ever happen in your life... you're free to do whatever you want... being single is great. God will like you again for working hard and maybe return that power you have that women desire for.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wouldn't see a point to living. My need for sex and intimacy is too strong that living without them would be impossible.

It would be better that I quickly and peacefully end my life before I went on a rampage.
 

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bugboy said:
Best thing that has ever happen in your life... you're free to do whatever you want... being single is great. God will like you again for working hard and maybe return that power you have that women desire for.
HAHAH nice try bugboy, i like your optimism, but there is no hope for women in this scenario. EVERR. But kudoos on your optimism.

I think there is definitely a lesson to be learnt here. I believe this could be called a L.E.S. Learning Evaluation Situation. You learn from yourself.

Heres a clue on the lesson: What is dependence? When does dependence hinder your life?

Keep it up guys, I hope more people read this and realize what I'm trying to get across.
 

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S.U.R.F. said:
HAHAH nice try bugboy, i like your optimism, but there is no hope for women in this scenario. EVERR. But kudoos on your optimism.

I think there is definitely a lesson to be learnt here. I believe this could be called a L.E.S. Learning Evaluation Situation. You learn from yourself.

Heres a clue on the lesson: What is dependence? When does dependence hinder your life?

Keep it up guys, I hope more people read this and realize what I'm trying to
get across.
Wait a sec... this is 'post baiting'. There no likely scenario...

case in point, the text 'Hands off your ****s and your keyboards'

This post is intend for the single male audience and you expect them to answer that?

Well since the saying goes... 'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me'.

Thanks for your opinion pal.. :down:
 

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nismo-4 said:
To hell with that! If you can't get women anymore, you better focus on your career and make great money!

@ Kirro: Ryu from Street Fighter or Ryu from Ninja Gaiden?
Ryu from streetfighter dude. I'd walk around in rags, no shoes, practice serious martial arts & get into random fights in random places.

That's been a dream of mine for the longest time.
 

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Kirro said:
Ryu from streetfighter dude. I'd walk around in rags, no shoes, practice serious martial arts & get into random fights in random places.

That's been a dream of mine for the longest time.
If you ever learn how to create a real-life hadoken, I'll fight you just so I can see it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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