"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I actually had this in my mind today. After reading the post by kal-whats his face on giving up. I thought this would be the perfect thread to write.

This would be a scenario, and I want to see how the sosuavers would react to this. Hands off your ****s and on your keyboards guys, let your imaginations run.

Scenario : You cannot get any more women. God hates you, Cupid hates you, whatever. For some FREAKISH reason, you cannot get anymore girls. Do not question this. YOU CANNOT GET ANYMORE WOMEN. You can befriend them, in fact, they love that. But it is IMPOSSIBLE to get a girl to be romantically interested in you.

If you have a girl/many girls, they instantly break up with you...right now.

Question : How will you deal with the rest of your life?

You are at whatever age you are right now. Women are no longer romantically interested in you. Even hookers cannot have sex with you for money. But I will be nice and give you your hands.

How will you react?
e.g. your feelings as you read this

What will your following years be like?
e.g. rejection, how will you cope..

Will you ever give up on trying to get women?
seriously, I don't care if you try for the rest of your life, you will fail...

How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?
e.g. goals, dreams, career, etc

Please answer these questions honestly. I'm not asking for paragraphs, but express yourselves properly.

Now the very last question.

How do you see your life going?
e.g. goals, dreams, careers, etc

The same as the last question above, but with your current abilities to attract women.

I'm very interested in how you guys will answer these questions.

Ciao.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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not a thing would change in my life bud, i suppose i'd stop trying if i knew it was never going to happen... my goals in life would remain the same.
 

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I would join some extremist politic party or religion, win elections and/or do some revolution or coup d'etat and I would become dictator like Stalin, Adolf, Saddam, Kim or whoever.

Then as a dictator I would steal the game from other guys :box: :trouble: :kick:

No. Seriously, I would be a wandering kungfu monk helping people who need it and I would do some pretty cool shyt aside too.
 

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Yeah I have to admit a lot of the motivation behind what I do is to eventually attract a high-value mate and make babies... without women I guess I'd have to settle for companionship and the (other) simple pleasures in life..
 

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I'd become a real life Ryu.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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- How will you react?

I wouldn't be shocked. It's not different from my situation right now. I'd probably say "So, what actually changed?"

- What will your following years be like?

They might even be better. As I know I have no chance whatsoever, I'd stop trying to push myself into trying to change and doing something that really goes with me instead.

- Will you ever give up on trying to get women?

Maybe, the subconscious is really tough on that. But concsiously, I would stop. Well, I pretty much gave up already, so it would be more of the same.

- How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?

My goals and my life have never been tied to women. And if they stay like that forever I would not even notice it, I guess.

~N
 

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Nygard said:
- What will your following years be like?

They might even be better. As I know I have no chance whatsoever, I'd stop trying to push myself into trying to change and doing something that really goes with me instead.

~N
Taa daa, live it like so.
 

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bump
 

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- How will you react?
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

- What will your following years be like?
Martial arts, wanking, weights, loads of box sets of tv series, anti depressants.


- Will you ever give up on trying to get women?
Focus all my effort into pulling trannys.


- How will you live your life after realizing women no longer want you?
I'd get loads of hobbies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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killahpl said:
I'd kill myself, thank you very much.
To hell with that! If you can't get women anymore, you better focus on your career and make great money!

@ Kirro: Ryu from Street Fighter or Ryu from Ninja Gaiden?
 

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Best thing that has ever happen in your life... you're free to do whatever you want... being single is great. God will like you again for working hard and maybe return that power you have that women desire for.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wouldn't see a point to living. My need for sex and intimacy is too strong that living without them would be impossible.

It would be better that I quickly and peacefully end my life before I went on a rampage.
 

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bugboy said:
Best thing that has ever happen in your life... you're free to do whatever you want... being single is great. God will like you again for working hard and maybe return that power you have that women desire for.
HAHAH nice try bugboy, i like your optimism, but there is no hope for women in this scenario. EVERR. But kudoos on your optimism.

I think there is definitely a lesson to be learnt here. I believe this could be called a L.E.S. Learning Evaluation Situation. You learn from yourself.

Heres a clue on the lesson: What is dependence? When does dependence hinder your life?

Keep it up guys, I hope more people read this and realize what I'm trying to get across.
 

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S.U.R.F. said:
HAHAH nice try bugboy, i like your optimism, but there is no hope for women in this scenario. EVERR. But kudoos on your optimism.

I think there is definitely a lesson to be learnt here. I believe this could be called a L.E.S. Learning Evaluation Situation. You learn from yourself.

Heres a clue on the lesson: What is dependence? When does dependence hinder your life?

Keep it up guys, I hope more people read this and realize what I'm trying to
get across.
Wait a sec... this is 'post baiting'. There no likely scenario...

case in point, the text 'Hands off your ****s and your keyboards'

This post is intend for the single male audience and you expect them to answer that?

Well since the saying goes... 'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me'.

Thanks for your opinion pal.. :down:
 

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nismo-4 said:
To hell with that! If you can't get women anymore, you better focus on your career and make great money!

@ Kirro: Ryu from Street Fighter or Ryu from Ninja Gaiden?
Ryu from streetfighter dude. I'd walk around in rags, no shoes, practice serious martial arts & get into random fights in random places.

That's been a dream of mine for the longest time.
 

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Kirro said:
Ryu from streetfighter dude. I'd walk around in rags, no shoes, practice serious martial arts & get into random fights in random places.

That's been a dream of mine for the longest time.
If you ever learn how to create a real-life hadoken, I'll fight you just so I can see it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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