Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Guys

Go and find a copy , I don't care where , of "Don Jon"

Literally this website in a movie , some really realistic crap is in there

At some points this guy is pvssified !!!!!!!

im only halfway through and this is freaking amazing

Doesn't do SJ much justice though

Give me your thoughts !!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scarlett J is the perfect manipulative chick (HB9) and gives the guy a hard time before he figures it out. The scene at the mall is an example
 

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adam225 said:
Yep

Joker - Its just a generic film if im honest with a bit of a wierd ending , but its got some realistic shizz in it !!! from the start fi you check out her room , you can see the princess complex

And his sister freaking nails it !!!!
 

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yes sister nailed it. only one statement and boooom!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The movie is definitely entertaining, BUT Don Jon is no Don Juan. Yeah, ok he cleans up at the club but his addiction to porn is freaking retarded. His views on sex are stupid, there's no real life $$ shot you have to blow in a condom? That's sum BS if you ask me, I've never met a chick that didn't like doggy....js

I will leave it at that, don't want add any spoilers. I must watch for AFC's, I will give you that. Comon a movie on the first date with the princess, forget about it.
 

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Lotus Effect said:
I could not care less about this sh*t!

Go outside and do your own stuff instead of watching some hollywood BS!

yeah agreed , just cracked myself so hard at some stuff in this movie - saw it in a movie theater
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hockeyfreak79 said:
The movie is definitely entertaining, BUT Don Jon is no Don Juan. Yeah, ok he cleans up at the club but his addiction to porn is freaking retarded. His views on sex are stupid, there's no real life $$ shot you have to blow in a condom? That's sum BS if you ask me, I've never met a chick that didn't like doggy....js

I will leave it at that, don't want add any spoilers. I must watch for AFC's, I will give you that. Comon a movie on the first date with the princess, forget about it.
Agreed

but dude ...ONS can be picky if you go the top end HB8/9 , they dont have to work for it bro
 
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