"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you are me, would you bang her?

Lost In the Seas

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i have this HB7 in my band, her face is quite good, big boobs, but if only her body is a bit thinner and longer legs, she would be an 8.

its obvious she is interested in going out with me, but i am keeping her on a short leash. Whenever she tries to approach me i would shoot it down. But then next time we meet i would suggest hanging out again and arouse her interest in me, and the cycle goes on.

Right now i am not sure if i do want a relationship with her but i dont wanna completely reject her either.

I thought about the consequences, and i just don't see a long lasting relationship with her. She is honestly not really my dream girl and i would probably be more interested in banging her than loving her truly. but hey i would luv to bang her lol

i think im not really her type of guy too, but not to brag im a fun person to hang out with, better looking than most, and she just had some breakups and she probably want a new guy badly to crush on just for the sake of it

the other thing is that she is in my band, and either we break up or not it would still be an akward situation becoz im the only guy in my band (lol), all the rest are girls

so ya, if ur me, would u go for her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Morphiex

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prolly not since shes in your band .... and that would just cause trouble later on down the road.... but if she wasent in the band or if u or her are leaving thte band soon , then id **** her......
 

The Juan and only

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nope, there are a million better women out there and like you say, it could cause a akward situation with the band. If you were really interested then it might be a different story but as you don't seem particularly fussed, I would say it's not worth it.
 
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