"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you are in a hurry you will never get there

backbreaker

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I read a quote every morning in part of my morning meditation and I take time to reflect on it. that is the quote i read this morning and the first thing I thought of was this forum.

I have my flaws. I'm stubborn, I can be somewhat arrogant and I think I know everything. I also have a bad habit of making everything everyone does personal. But one thing I have always seemed to grap to sme extent is that anything worth while is worth working for.

Tell me.. name me ONE thing that has came that was GREAT that came overnight? I can't name one for me.

everything I have in my life took months, usually YEARS of painstaking work. I am at 6% body fat.. you think I got that overnight when I used to be 29%? try a year and a half buddy.

those of you who have been here a while know my story and I won't go into it.. but do yout hink I got to that point overnight? 3 years of painstaking work.

read as a man thinkith, there is a quote in there, that goes something like for great things, great things must be sacrificed.

The people that are the best at what they do did not get there by chance. They did not get their overnight either. People who are great at what they do get there becuase they have this obsessive drive that makes them want to be the best at whatever it is they want to do.


you want to get laid? you tired of swooning over women you see in starbucks then going home and wacking off? You tired of being a phone ***** with your woman who LJBFed you, looking for just that right combination of WORDS to WIN HER OVER and MAKE HER REALIZE HOW GREAT OF A GUY YOU ARE? (we've all been there man.. i promise you)

1) Make a plan
2) Stick to the plan above all
3) be patient


you do that and women will be mailing ***** to you in no time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BadsnakeUK

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Agreed. I'm just starting to get out of that immature PUA 'next them if they don't put out in 7 hours' sh!t so this really rings true with me at the moment. Its funny because I have long term plans and goals in other areas of life but I guess I started to listen to too much of the 'hardcore player' cr@p.

So many of us forget that seduction is an art, and no great artist ever knocked up a masterpiece in 7 hours. Its all a process and it takes time.

Thanks again.
 
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