"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you are in a hurry you will never get there

backbreaker

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I read a quote every morning in part of my morning meditation and I take time to reflect on it. that is the quote i read this morning and the first thing I thought of was this forum.

I have my flaws. I'm stubborn, I can be somewhat arrogant and I think I know everything. I also have a bad habit of making everything everyone does personal. But one thing I have always seemed to grap to sme extent is that anything worth while is worth working for.

Tell me.. name me ONE thing that has came that was GREAT that came overnight? I can't name one for me.

everything I have in my life took months, usually YEARS of painstaking work. I am at 6% body fat.. you think I got that overnight when I used to be 29%? try a year and a half buddy.

those of you who have been here a while know my story and I won't go into it.. but do yout hink I got to that point overnight? 3 years of painstaking work.

read as a man thinkith, there is a quote in there, that goes something like for great things, great things must be sacrificed.

The people that are the best at what they do did not get there by chance. They did not get their overnight either. People who are great at what they do get there becuase they have this obsessive drive that makes them want to be the best at whatever it is they want to do.


you want to get laid? you tired of swooning over women you see in starbucks then going home and wacking off? You tired of being a phone ***** with your woman who LJBFed you, looking for just that right combination of WORDS to WIN HER OVER and MAKE HER REALIZE HOW GREAT OF A GUY YOU ARE? (we've all been there man.. i promise you)

1) Make a plan
2) Stick to the plan above all
3) be patient


you do that and women will be mailing ***** to you in no time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed. I'm just starting to get out of that immature PUA 'next them if they don't put out in 7 hours' sh!t so this really rings true with me at the moment. Its funny because I have long term plans and goals in other areas of life but I guess I started to listen to too much of the 'hardcore player' cr@p.

So many of us forget that seduction is an art, and no great artist ever knocked up a masterpiece in 7 hours. Its all a process and it takes time.

Thanks again.
 
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