"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you are 30+ and you are moving to a larger town

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Spuds,
I think you want it all handed to you on a plate....The suggestions here and in similar threads are very helpful,that we don't respond more enthusiastically is that this topic has been done to death so many times,it recurrs in various forms every month...The problem is that you are going to have to remodel yourself to suit the changed environment...That's our reality what's yours?
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since you are with one foot in the grave I'm not surprised that you don't care, you are probably here getting e-validation so you can hallucinate that you had a good life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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since you are with one foot in the grave I'm not surprised that you don't care, you are probably here getting e-validation so you can hallucinate that you had a good life
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He obviously gets more real life validation than you.
 
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Dear Spuds,
Though you are a charmless nurk,I shall respond with Civility....
"you can hallucinate that you had a good life"....well the past tense is your choice...I lived through the hedonistic sixties and you would think that I would yearn to have those day back,but no, things are better for me at my age than ever before in my life,and getting better...Sure much of this is a state of mind,but much is because of increased confidence,secure financial base,Asian Girls,The Internet,and the experience and ability to sift and screen out the dross that only Experience can give you...But honestly the greatest support I enjoy is not Mums Apple pie but Mr Pfizers little blue bullets!
 
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May I suggest a more positive attitude toward the whole thing. I can tell you from experience that it will help more than anything. Be open and willing to try new things, open up and have fun. Don't pressure yourself or others. If not you will most likely bottom out hard. Good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You asked two questions op. how can you find a social circle. People here gave you that. How can you meet women with out day game. Get overyourself stop using your age as an excuse and say hello. Or go to lounges and bars that cater to an older crowd and run club game. Stop being a phaggot and do it.
 
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