"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you are 30+ and you are moving to a larger town

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Spuds,
I think you want it all handed to you on a plate....The suggestions here and in similar threads are very helpful,that we don't respond more enthusiastically is that this topic has been done to death so many times,it recurrs in various forms every month...The problem is that you are going to have to remodel yourself to suit the changed environment...That's our reality what's yours?
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since you are with one foot in the grave I'm not surprised that you don't care, you are probably here getting e-validation so you can hallucinate that you had a good life
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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since you are with one foot in the grave I'm not surprised that you don't care, you are probably here getting e-validation so you can hallucinate that you had a good life
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He obviously gets more real life validation than you.
 
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Dear Spuds,
Though you are a charmless nurk,I shall respond with Civility....
"you can hallucinate that you had a good life"....well the past tense is your choice...I lived through the hedonistic sixties and you would think that I would yearn to have those day back,but no, things are better for me at my age than ever before in my life,and getting better...Sure much of this is a state of mind,but much is because of increased confidence,secure financial base,Asian Girls,The Internet,and the experience and ability to sift and screen out the dross that only Experience can give you...But honestly the greatest support I enjoy is not Mums Apple pie but Mr Pfizers little blue bullets!
 
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May I suggest a more positive attitude toward the whole thing. I can tell you from experience that it will help more than anything. Be open and willing to try new things, open up and have fun. Don't pressure yourself or others. If not you will most likely bottom out hard. Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You asked two questions op. how can you find a social circle. People here gave you that. How can you meet women with out day game. Get overyourself stop using your age as an excuse and say hello. Or go to lounges and bars that cater to an older crowd and run club game. Stop being a phaggot and do it.
 
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