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If you already kissed her, what should date #1 be?

spiegel549

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What up brothers. Being the Alpha male TO THE MAX landed me the number to this sexy spanish broad. I wanted to get some brotherly guidance.


Usually you make the approach, get the number, wait a few days, set up date #1.

I met this sexy girl Saturday at a party. I am KILLER at dancing so I approached and her made dance Salsa with me. She wasn't that good so i taught her ; )Within 20 minutes of dancing I made a move to kiss her, she turned her head, I started kissing her neck, smelling her neck, whispering how nice she smelled, I went for the kiss again and landed it! The party was dying down and we were alone in a room making out every 60 seconds, dancing our ASS OFF, I was pulling her hair, grabbing her tits etc.

Towards the end of the night she had to bring her girlfriends home, so I said were going out next week. Exchanged numbers, walked her to her car, made out a bit, told me to call her 10 times, then she left.

My question is..obviously her interest right now is extremely high. For date #1 since we already almost ****ed..can I shoot for a date at my house? I can see myself keeping this girl around so I don't want to come off as HEY I JUST WANNA ****!

Opinions advice por favor (please) =p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Harry Wilmington

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Party makeout to date transition? Done it a few times myself.

It's pretty simple, actually. Depending on your living situation (i.e. if you live alone or what not) you can either have her meet you at your place before heading out; or, if you have a car, asking her if she can pick you up since you "need to get it looked at the next day and don't want to drive it."

Either way, it means she has to come to your house. Date-wise, keep it fun but inexpensive - a comedy show is good to get her in a good mood, or you can do the movies which, while admittedly isn't all that exiting, WILL allow you to put your arm around her and re-start up the making out session.

Then, when you get back to your place... if you drove, walk her back to her car and start making out. If she drove, reach over, give her a hug, and then start making out. Make sure you aim for the neck - it's what I like to call the "ignition" spot because I find that kissing a girl there for a decent amount of time will usually result in her wanting to f--k the living sh-t out of you. At which point, transitioning to your room shouldn't be that hard.

Hope this helps!
 

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Harry's advice is pretty solid, I also like taking them to play pool or something.

Really, as was already mentioned, it's all about logistics. If you are not comfortable inviting her over to your place as the date, take her somewhere such that it will be easy to get her back.

How old are ya'll? If you're college students living near campus then fvck it, just party with her!
 

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spiegel549 said:
What up brothers. Being the Alpha male TO THE MAX landed me the number to this sexy spanish broad. I wanted to get some brotherly guidance.


Usually you make the approach, get the number, wait a few days, set up date #1.

I met this sexy girl Saturday at a party. I am KILLER at dancing so I approached and her made dance Salsa with me. She wasn't that good so i taught her ; )Within 20 minutes of dancing I made a move to kiss her, she turned her head, I started kissing her neck, smelling her neck, whispering how nice she smelled, I went for the kiss again and landed it! The party was dying down and we were alone in a room making out every 60 seconds, dancing our ASS OFF, I was pulling her hair, grabbing her tits etc.

Towards the end of the night she had to bring her girlfriends home, so I said were going out next week. Exchanged numbers, walked her to her car, made out a bit, told me to call her 10 times, then she left.

My question is..obviously her interest right now is extremely high. For date #1 since we already almost ****ed..can I shoot for a date at my house? I can see myself keeping this girl around so I don't want to come off as HEY I JUST WANNA ****!

Opinions advice por favor (please) =p
Do exactly the same as you did earlier but now without her friends. Take her home later when she's warmed up and do your business there.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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