"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you already kissed her, what should date #1 be?

spiegel549

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What up brothers. Being the Alpha male TO THE MAX landed me the number to this sexy spanish broad. I wanted to get some brotherly guidance.


Usually you make the approach, get the number, wait a few days, set up date #1.

I met this sexy girl Saturday at a party. I am KILLER at dancing so I approached and her made dance Salsa with me. She wasn't that good so i taught her ; )Within 20 minutes of dancing I made a move to kiss her, she turned her head, I started kissing her neck, smelling her neck, whispering how nice she smelled, I went for the kiss again and landed it! The party was dying down and we were alone in a room making out every 60 seconds, dancing our ASS OFF, I was pulling her hair, grabbing her tits etc.

Towards the end of the night she had to bring her girlfriends home, so I said were going out next week. Exchanged numbers, walked her to her car, made out a bit, told me to call her 10 times, then she left.

My question is..obviously her interest right now is extremely high. For date #1 since we already almost ****ed..can I shoot for a date at my house? I can see myself keeping this girl around so I don't want to come off as HEY I JUST WANNA ****!

Opinions advice por favor (please) =p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Harry Wilmington

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Party makeout to date transition? Done it a few times myself.

It's pretty simple, actually. Depending on your living situation (i.e. if you live alone or what not) you can either have her meet you at your place before heading out; or, if you have a car, asking her if she can pick you up since you "need to get it looked at the next day and don't want to drive it."

Either way, it means she has to come to your house. Date-wise, keep it fun but inexpensive - a comedy show is good to get her in a good mood, or you can do the movies which, while admittedly isn't all that exiting, WILL allow you to put your arm around her and re-start up the making out session.

Then, when you get back to your place... if you drove, walk her back to her car and start making out. If she drove, reach over, give her a hug, and then start making out. Make sure you aim for the neck - it's what I like to call the "ignition" spot because I find that kissing a girl there for a decent amount of time will usually result in her wanting to f--k the living sh-t out of you. At which point, transitioning to your room shouldn't be that hard.

Hope this helps!
 

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Harry's advice is pretty solid, I also like taking them to play pool or something.

Really, as was already mentioned, it's all about logistics. If you are not comfortable inviting her over to your place as the date, take her somewhere such that it will be easy to get her back.

How old are ya'll? If you're college students living near campus then fvck it, just party with her!
 

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spiegel549 said:
What up brothers. Being the Alpha male TO THE MAX landed me the number to this sexy spanish broad. I wanted to get some brotherly guidance.


Usually you make the approach, get the number, wait a few days, set up date #1.

I met this sexy girl Saturday at a party. I am KILLER at dancing so I approached and her made dance Salsa with me. She wasn't that good so i taught her ; )Within 20 minutes of dancing I made a move to kiss her, she turned her head, I started kissing her neck, smelling her neck, whispering how nice she smelled, I went for the kiss again and landed it! The party was dying down and we were alone in a room making out every 60 seconds, dancing our ASS OFF, I was pulling her hair, grabbing her tits etc.

Towards the end of the night she had to bring her girlfriends home, so I said were going out next week. Exchanged numbers, walked her to her car, made out a bit, told me to call her 10 times, then she left.

My question is..obviously her interest right now is extremely high. For date #1 since we already almost ****ed..can I shoot for a date at my house? I can see myself keeping this girl around so I don't want to come off as HEY I JUST WANNA ****!

Opinions advice por favor (please) =p
Do exactly the same as you did earlier but now without her friends. Take her home later when she's warmed up and do your business there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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