mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You really do want your wife or gf to be "strong boner" rated...
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If Women Treat You Like a '10' You ARE a '10'
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
andreihaha
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He just wanted to say that for a wife you're looking at more than just a boner. Boner was implied I guess.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The most attractive quality of all that even trumps looks:
Social Status.
What is Social Status? A demonstrated ability to influence men and women, and by extension to lead them.
High Social Status trumps looks, wealth, and any number of more superficial qualities. It is the drug of choice for women. It intoxicates them. Why? Because women are inherently needy, social and herd-centric in their core. Being attached to a man of high Social Status raises her own status among her peers.
I maintain that this far outweighs innate good looks in terms of female attraction. This is because a man’s perceived looks is malleable. The more SS a man displays, the better he looks physically to her. She “reasons” that “He must be very good looking, since I get such tingles from him” I repeat, women’s perceptions are malleable. She will always rationalize her feelings, no matter how far from reality her feelings are.
Social Status carries with it the perception of undeniable social awareness and calibration. Also raw power. Any man who can lead is very attractive to most women. This is why I always extol the virtues of working to become a leader. Oozing leadership qualities covers a multitude of sins when it comes to physical attractiveness. It becomes an ever-growing closed loop of social proof as more and more people are observed to be under your spell. Learn to lead, and watch your problems with women diminish.
Social Status.
What is Social Status? A demonstrated ability to influence men and women, and by extension to lead them.
High Social Status trumps looks, wealth, and any number of more superficial qualities. It is the drug of choice for women. It intoxicates them. Why? Because women are inherently needy, social and herd-centric in their core. Being attached to a man of high Social Status raises her own status among her peers.
I maintain that this far outweighs innate good looks in terms of female attraction. This is because a man’s perceived looks is malleable. The more SS a man displays, the better he looks physically to her. She “reasons” that “He must be very good looking, since I get such tingles from him” I repeat, women’s perceptions are malleable. She will always rationalize her feelings, no matter how far from reality her feelings are.
Social Status carries with it the perception of undeniable social awareness and calibration. Also raw power. Any man who can lead is very attractive to most women. This is why I always extol the virtues of working to become a leader. Oozing leadership qualities covers a multitude of sins when it comes to physical attractiveness. It becomes an ever-growing closed loop of social proof as more and more people are observed to be under your spell. Learn to lead, and watch your problems with women diminish.
genius, good job, pin this post