"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If women are your main goal move to NYC

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Assuming your financially comfortable and your career is set, and can afford the lifestyle... NYC is the best place for an up and coming player. I have to be totally honest, I felt like a 10 when I stayed in Manhattan. Hot women are just thirsty out there.

I have to say that NYC really changed my perspective on women and dating in general. When I was there I had women running up to me asking for a threesome. I think I got approached more in one week there than I have in 6 months in LA.

Something in the water out there...NYC women don't **** around. In NYC I could realistically pull one 8/10 every weekend. In LA I'd be lucky to get that once a month.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Something tells me that if you have women approaching you, you're much more chad than the rest of us
 

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I second this. I was bagging NYC chicks from out in Jersey. They’re extremely career-driven and forward, so they don’t like to waste time.
 

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The sheer quantity of women there is what makes it appealing. I went to Tao in NY last month and the chicks there were beyond hot. Since nightlife there is happening 7 nights a week, you have so many opportunities. If you have money it’s almost too easy.
 

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I lived there for 3 years and it's not all it's cracked up to be.

BIG difference between visiting vs. living there.
 

btownbuck2012

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
WHAT?!? You mean you don't want to date women who gradually start harboring resentment towards you for giving them an orgasm every time you have sex with them?! You're THE PROBLEM man. Not them. :rolleyes:
 
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