"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If women are your main goal move to NYC

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Assuming your financially comfortable and your career is set, and can afford the lifestyle... NYC is the best place for an up and coming player. I have to be totally honest, I felt like a 10 when I stayed in Manhattan. Hot women are just thirsty out there.

I have to say that NYC really changed my perspective on women and dating in general. When I was there I had women running up to me asking for a threesome. I think I got approached more in one week there than I have in 6 months in LA.

Something in the water out there...NYC women don't **** around. In NYC I could realistically pull one 8/10 every weekend. In LA I'd be lucky to get that once a month.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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Something tells me that if you have women approaching you, you're much more chad than the rest of us
 

EyeBRollin

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I second this. I was bagging NYC chicks from out in Jersey. They’re extremely career-driven and forward, so they don’t like to waste time.
 

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The sheer quantity of women there is what makes it appealing. I went to Tao in NY last month and the chicks there were beyond hot. Since nightlife there is happening 7 nights a week, you have so many opportunities. If you have money it’s almost too easy.
 

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I lived there for 3 years and it's not all it's cracked up to be.

BIG difference between visiting vs. living there.
 

btownbuck2012

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
WHAT?!? You mean you don't want to date women who gradually start harboring resentment towards you for giving them an orgasm every time you have sex with them?! You're THE PROBLEM man. Not them. :rolleyes:
 
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