"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If women are your main goal move to NYC

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Assuming your financially comfortable and your career is set, and can afford the lifestyle... NYC is the best place for an up and coming player. I have to be totally honest, I felt like a 10 when I stayed in Manhattan. Hot women are just thirsty out there.

I have to say that NYC really changed my perspective on women and dating in general. When I was there I had women running up to me asking for a threesome. I think I got approached more in one week there than I have in 6 months in LA.

Something in the water out there...NYC women don't **** around. In NYC I could realistically pull one 8/10 every weekend. In LA I'd be lucky to get that once a month.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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devilkingx2

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Something tells me that if you have women approaching you, you're much more chad than the rest of us
 

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I second this. I was bagging NYC chicks from out in Jersey. They’re extremely career-driven and forward, so they don’t like to waste time.
 

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The sheer quantity of women there is what makes it appealing. I went to Tao in NY last month and the chicks there were beyond hot. Since nightlife there is happening 7 nights a week, you have so many opportunities. If you have money it’s almost too easy.
 

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I lived there for 3 years and it's not all it's cracked up to be.

BIG difference between visiting vs. living there.
 

btownbuck2012

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No thanks...I'm fine right here in good ole Oklahoma where the women are actually down to earth...Liberal New York women ? No thank you.
WHAT?!? You mean you don't want to date women who gradually start harboring resentment towards you for giving them an orgasm every time you have sex with them?! You're THE PROBLEM man. Not them. :rolleyes:
 
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