"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If we could only control our sex drives for a little while

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You're trying to be logical about something that is not. Whether or not you want to get married has nothing to do with your genetic obligation to procreate and provide/protect what is yours. You don't have a say in the matter.

As for your art, It doesn't matter if you draw a dragon or a fucking bunny rabbit surfing a wave of hot lava, it is still sexually motivated.

To bad i like none of those songs. looks like you lose again.
Too bad you still can't understand the simple point I'm making. Music is all about sex. I don't care what songs you like. Almost every (good) song ever written is about sex, drugs and sex, war and sex, or some derivative of sex. Sure you like music that sounds good.. that makes you feel good. It's all an expression of your sexuality, and it's the same feeling the artists get when they write the music (it's their "art").

You're right. I am not familiar with you at all. I'm making the assumption that you're a healthy, intelligent human being, who is capable of at least a minimum level of critical thinking. I'm not here to split hairs with you. If you lack the intelligence to grasp my underlying message, then I cannot help you. But if you're truly interested in how your sexuality plays a role in your everyday behavior and would like a very in-depth explanation, then pick up a copy of The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins, or The Red Queen by Matt Ridley. You won't be disappointed.

And to answer your question: People who are asexual generally suffer from a hormone deficiency that's usually a result of a genetic disorder, premature birth, fetal alcohol syndrome, etc. Regardless, they won't be reproductively successful and their genes won't last many more generations, if any.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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