"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

If we could only control our sex drives for a little while

dbot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2003
Messages
530
Reaction score
63
You're trying to be logical about something that is not. Whether or not you want to get married has nothing to do with your genetic obligation to procreate and provide/protect what is yours. You don't have a say in the matter.

As for your art, It doesn't matter if you draw a dragon or a fucking bunny rabbit surfing a wave of hot lava, it is still sexually motivated.

To bad i like none of those songs. looks like you lose again.
Too bad you still can't understand the simple point I'm making. Music is all about sex. I don't care what songs you like. Almost every (good) song ever written is about sex, drugs and sex, war and sex, or some derivative of sex. Sure you like music that sounds good.. that makes you feel good. It's all an expression of your sexuality, and it's the same feeling the artists get when they write the music (it's their "art").

You're right. I am not familiar with you at all. I'm making the assumption that you're a healthy, intelligent human being, who is capable of at least a minimum level of critical thinking. I'm not here to split hairs with you. If you lack the intelligence to grasp my underlying message, then I cannot help you. But if you're truly interested in how your sexuality plays a role in your everyday behavior and would like a very in-depth explanation, then pick up a copy of The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins, or The Red Queen by Matt Ridley. You won't be disappointed.

And to answer your question: People who are asexual generally suffer from a hormone deficiency that's usually a result of a genetic disorder, premature birth, fetal alcohol syndrome, etc. Regardless, they won't be reproductively successful and their genes won't last many more generations, if any.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top