"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If we could only control our sex drives for a little while

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You're trying to be logical about something that is not. Whether or not you want to get married has nothing to do with your genetic obligation to procreate and provide/protect what is yours. You don't have a say in the matter.

As for your art, It doesn't matter if you draw a dragon or a fucking bunny rabbit surfing a wave of hot lava, it is still sexually motivated.

To bad i like none of those songs. looks like you lose again.
Too bad you still can't understand the simple point I'm making. Music is all about sex. I don't care what songs you like. Almost every (good) song ever written is about sex, drugs and sex, war and sex, or some derivative of sex. Sure you like music that sounds good.. that makes you feel good. It's all an expression of your sexuality, and it's the same feeling the artists get when they write the music (it's their "art").

You're right. I am not familiar with you at all. I'm making the assumption that you're a healthy, intelligent human being, who is capable of at least a minimum level of critical thinking. I'm not here to split hairs with you. If you lack the intelligence to grasp my underlying message, then I cannot help you. But if you're truly interested in how your sexuality plays a role in your everyday behavior and would like a very in-depth explanation, then pick up a copy of The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins, or The Red Queen by Matt Ridley. You won't be disappointed.

And to answer your question: People who are asexual generally suffer from a hormone deficiency that's usually a result of a genetic disorder, premature birth, fetal alcohol syndrome, etc. Regardless, they won't be reproductively successful and their genes won't last many more generations, if any.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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