If we could only control our sex drives for a little while

[factfindingmission]

Imagine what the world would be like if men stopped letting women profit from being female. I mean seriously, what would our world be like? Think about all the different ways women have it easier than men simply because they're female and look good. Professions like Porn Stars, Strippers, Models, Waitresses, Bartenders and Phone Sex operators would all be out of business. If men chose to not reward women for what they look like, would their power in social and professional settings be seriously impaired?

Would women stop taking care of themselves, or would they try even harder to get our attention? Would all the sex industry workers have to go find real jobs? Would all the trophy wives and gold diggers be forced to work at McDonalds?

It's an interesting thought. Sure some women don't make as much money as men in certain corporate settings, but why isn't anyone bytching about how female models and strippers far out earn their male counterparts? It'll never happen, because there will always be the idiots who will do anything to have sex and the supplicators who think kissing ass is a way to get laid. But wow, if men would just stop rewarding women for their looks, how different this world would be.

 

[Son of anarchy]

I think the world would go back at 19th century in the genders related field.
No women in the army,no reserved jobs for them,no marriages since there is no point in it except sex and family(since they dont cook or clean anymore neither want children).

 

[EA Gold]

Never thought about it but you have a good point!


Instead of looking for s3x, man could have already invented hovercraft technology, ended poverty, hunger, the rich/poor classes, and free energy available to anyone.

by the way, I WANT MY Hover Conversion Bmw and my nike air kicks with power laces like in the back to the future, its almost 2015..lol

 

[Luthor Rex]

Would women stop taking care of themselves, or would they try even harder to get our attention?

I think a lot of them would go bat sh!t nuts, and keep increasing the outrageousness with which they would try and get our attention.

If walking around naked all day failed for women, they would resort to guilt tactics and start self harm such as cutting.

 

[Raikojo17]

That's assuming that all women want is attention from men and have no goals and dreams of their own

do not some of these women control their sex drives and actually do something with their lives besides bathe in male attention?

even then, i think alot of men would do alot just to get laid, but for the most part they have more important things to worry about. like jobs and school and bills

 

[Luthor Rex]

That's assuming that all women want is attention from men and have no goals and dreams of their own

That assumption is correct for about 90% of women out there. Their "dreams" all involve a man a house and babies.

 

[dbot]

More than 95% of our actions are sexually motivated, and that's a conservative statistic. Sigmund Freud hypothesized that all human behavior is somehow connected to our sexual intentions, and from a biological standpoint, he's correct. The sole purpose of our existence is to procreate. Therefore, eliminating our sexual desire would effectively destroy our will to live. I wouldn't exactly call that "progress."

 

[Rogue]

The modern world of inventions is thankful for guys were trying to get laid. All inventions and innovations are usually made before the age of 30 during peak sexual activity. It's sexual competition for mates. Look at why marriage and children kill creativity in men:

http://www.abc.net.au/science/news/stories/s900147.htm

 

[Raikojo17]

I'm willing to say that only about 50% of my actions are sexually motivated

but i have a High sex drive in general

what about people who are asexual? who don't have much of a sex drive at all?

they exist too you know

freud was a sex fiend and a crack pot

 

[Raikojo17]

The modern world of inventions is thankful for guys were trying to get laid. All inventions and innovations are usually made before the age of 30 during peak sexual activity. It's sexual competition for mates. Look at why marriage and children kill creativity in men:

http://www.abc.net.au/science/news/stories/s900147.htm

I'm sure Issac Newton had no interest in science and learning at all

he was only trying to get laid

get your heads out of the vaginas for a second


people have other motivations than getting laid

 

[Rogue]

I'm sure Issac Newton had no interest in science and learning at all. he was only trying to get laid

No, not "no interest" and not "only trying," but it is a strong underlying motivation. Newton was baffled why women didn't want him despite his genius and when he was on his deathbed in 1727 he confessed he was dying having never known a woman.

 

[factfindingmission]

I think some of you are missing my point. I didn't say we should lose our drives permanently, or that all women do is seek male attention. I was talking specifically about how it would affect women who base their livelyhoods on men and the income they provide.

 

[Phenomenal One]

No, not "no interest" and not "only trying," but it is a strong underlying motivation. Newton was baffled why women didn't want him despite his genius and when he was on his deathbed in 1727 he confessed he was dying having never known a woman.

that does'nt mean he did those things to get woman,
he just thought his genius would get him woman.

you may have a large knowlegde of sports and since you take pride in that knowledge you may foolishly think that woman would be interested in you because of it , but they might not.

 

[PRMoon]

How am I gonna make money then? All the professions you listed (with the exception of phone sex operators) are my associates, many are women and I bring them buisness. In turn, I get paid decent somes of money for bringing the people seeking such ventures to people offering it together. Everybody has a good time and I get paid.

If all of a sudden guys lost interest in trying to get into womens pants, which I must say is a two way street because I hook up just as many girls as I do guys and their looking to get laid just as badly, and profit off them as well. I need that taboo element of lust to run my enterprises!

 

[Luthor Rex]

No, not "no interest" and not "only trying," but it is a strong underlying motivation. Newton was baffled why women didn't want him despite his genius and when he was on his deathbed in 1727 he confessed he was dying having never known a woman.

Sometimes a person can be "different" in a way that makes them more sexually attractive. Rock stars are certainly different from "normal" people and that is part of their charm.

But then you have someone like Newton. He was different, but in the kind of odd way that makes it hard for anyone to relate to him, or for him to relate to anyone else. There is a limit beyond which genuine communication between different levels of intelligence becomes impossible.

Anyhow, I'm sure he would have done science anyway even if he knew it wouldn't get him a piece of azz.

 

[Rogue]

that does'nt mean he did those things to get woman, he just thought his genius would get him woman.

Where's the disagreement? You just stated my point.

 

[dbot]

I'm willing to say that only about 50% of my actions are sexually motivated

I'm willing to bet you're wrong. Almost all intrinsically motivated behavior is sexually driven, whether you're consciously aware of it or not. It's not about getting laid, but about attracting an ideal mate that will yield the most capable offspring. If you were only 50% sexually driven, your inferior genetics would have been ousted from the pool a long time ago.

 

[Raikojo17]

I'm willing to bet you're wrong. Almost all intrinsically motivated behavior is sexually driven, whether you're consciously aware of it or not. It's not about getting laid, but about attracting an ideal mate that will yield the most capable offspring. If you were only 50% sexually driven, your inferior genetics would have been ousted from the pool a long time ago.

I go to school. why? to get a good job and education. (Nothing to do with a wife)

I enjoy working out. I'll give you that one. it's partly to look good, but also because i enjoy pushing my limits and getting stronger. not to mention it's fun and a good way to blow off steam


I draw. I am good at it and it makes me happy. again, nothing to do with sex or an "Ideal Mate"

I eat. Because i'm hungry

I date. Because i want to find and ideal mate (again, another point for you)

I sleep because i'm tired

I work because i need money. nothing to do with sex and women again

I enjoy music because it keeps me going.

so that's about two things just from that list that are sexually motivated. so it looks like most thing i do are not

so because of that i'm willing to bet that the 90% stat was pulled out of someones ass

even animals, who do have to attract and "ideal mate" in some species just devote one season to doing so. so that means the rest of the year they're doing something else, like surviving.

so your point is still holds no water

 

[dbot]

so that's about two things just from that list that are sexually motivated. so it looks like most thing i do are not

...

so your point is still holds no water

Try rereading the paragraph of mine that you quoted. Notice how I said "Intrinsically Motivated" behavior? I'm talking about behavior that you control at your will. Eating and sleeping is out of your control (at least, if you want to live).

I go to school. why? to get a good job and education. (Nothing to do with a wife)

Working is part survival part sexual motivation. You go to school so you can get a good job and provide for your mate and offspring. Even your choice in career is sexually motivated, whether you're willing to admit it or not.

I draw. I am good at it and it makes me happy. again, nothing to do with sex or an "Ideal Mate"

Art is an expression of your sexuality. You don't necessarily have to be hot and bothered about what you're drawing, but your sexuality is most definitely an influence that drives your art.

I work because i need money. nothing to do with sex and women again

You're right. Money has absolutely nothing to do with sex whatsoever. I don't know how anyone could possibly make that connection. The influence and power associated with money couldn't possibly affect your sex life!

I enjoy music because it keeps me going.

I bet it keeps you going... here are the top 10 songs, according to billboard.com:

I Gotta Feeling
Best I Ever Had
You Belong With Me
Knock You Down
Fire Burning
Boom Boom Pow
Love Game
I Know You Want Me
Birthday Sex
Waking Up in Vegas

Hmm I wonder why you like music so much

Feel free to share some more of your "non-sexual" behavior and I'll gladly deconstruct it for you. Until then, try to keep an open mind about principles you're not familiar with.

-dbot

 

[Raikojo17]

Try rereading the paragraph of mine that you quoted. Notice how I said "Intrinsically Motivated" behavior? I'm talking about behavior that you control at your will. Eating and sleeping is out of your control (at least, if you want to live).

ok. last response. lol
Working is part survival part sexual motivation. You go to school so you can get a good job and provide for your mate and offspring. Even your choice in career is sexually motivated, whether you're willing to admit it or not.
here's a question. what if i don't want to get married and have kids? who am i providing for then? some girl i fvck? no thanks. I'm a Nurse major. I love medical science and always have. notice this has nothing to do with my sex drive. what about garbage men? sexy garbage their thing?


Art is an expression of your sexuality. You don't necessarily have to be hot and bothered about what you're drawing, but your sexuality is most definitely an influence that drives your art.

Some of it is. some of it isn't, Mr. Freud. I draw a hot chick, then i turn around and draw an awesome dragon. I guess my sexuality is like that of a dragon. those are my favorite things to draw so...

You're right. Money has absolutely nothing to do with sex whatsoever. I don't know how anyone could possibly make that connection. The influence and power associated with money couldn't possibly affect your sex life!

with my minimum wage job lol ok. Chicks dig 7.40 an hour.

I bet it keeps you going... here are the top 10 songs, according to billboard.com:

I Gotta Feeling
Best I Ever Had
You Belong With Me
Knock You Down
Fire Burning
Boom Boom Pow
Love Game
I Know You Want Me
Birthday Sex
Waking Up in Vegas

Hmm I wonder why you like music so much

To bad i like none of those songs. looks like you lose again. Just because an Artist sings about sex doesn't mean that that's why i like the song. beat's get me first, not lyrics.

My favorite Genre Happens be anything that sounds cool

Feel free to share some more of your "non-sexual" behavior and I'll gladly deconstruct it for you. Until then, try to keep an open mind about principles you're not familiar with.

I'm Familiar with my actions and motivations, thanks. It is you who are placing Motivations on me without being familiar with me at all. Mayb you should keep an open mind about people who's actions may be different than yours

and you didn't answer my question. what about those who are asexual and those who suffer from low sex drive? there are many of those around too. what motivates them?
-dbot

And for the OP. yes, we can control our sex drives. we are free thinking, free will creatures afterall. i don't have sex or masturbate unless i choose too, no matter how horny. same goes for everyone else, whether they think they can help it or not