"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If we are knowledgeable men of action then why do we ignore RED flags?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pelvischestly

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If it's her fault, there is a solution. Find a girl who is not at fault, Captain Save a Ho.
Excuse me sir I'm talking about those who choose to ignore RED flags and you like the poster above post that says they're easy lays which proves my point. You would choose to ignore red flags for an easy lay.

You bull rushed into the thread claiming there are no red flags if she likes you. As if her possible mental illness, dysfunctional upbringing, abusive relationship past etc. just vanishes with the magic of liking you enough.
 

bigneil

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As if her possible mental illness, dysfunctional upbringing, abusive relationship past etc. just vanishes with the magic of liking you enough.
Your caring should indeed vanish when her shrink delivers the bad news.

Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me.
 

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Leave your house sometime instead of just posting online.
On June 10th I will visit my 47th and 48th US states. I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities, fat boy.

I'll be bringing my HB9 BPD girl who is too good for you and I will photograph her in farm girl outfits the trip.

Here is how she would look at wimps like pelvischestly:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thunderlips

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Big Mac Neil. Riding around on freight trains with your knapsack doesn't count.

Your BPD stripper is looking at you wishing she could beam your brains out of Uranus back to planet earth.
 
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