"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If we are knowledgeable men of action then why do we ignore RED flags?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pelvischestly

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If it's her fault, there is a solution. Find a girl who is not at fault, Captain Save a Ho.
Excuse me sir I'm talking about those who choose to ignore RED flags and you like the poster above post that says they're easy lays which proves my point. You would choose to ignore red flags for an easy lay.

You bull rushed into the thread claiming there are no red flags if she likes you. As if her possible mental illness, dysfunctional upbringing, abusive relationship past etc. just vanishes with the magic of liking you enough.
 

bigneil

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As if her possible mental illness, dysfunctional upbringing, abusive relationship past etc. just vanishes with the magic of liking you enough.
Your caring should indeed vanish when her shrink delivers the bad news.

Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me.
 

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Leave your house sometime instead of just posting online.
On June 10th I will visit my 47th and 48th US states. I've lived in 12 states and 25 cities, fat boy.

I'll be bringing my HB9 BPD girl who is too good for you and I will photograph her in farm girl outfits the trip.

Here is how she would look at wimps like pelvischestly:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thunderlips

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Big Mac Neil. Riding around on freight trains with your knapsack doesn't count.

Your BPD stripper is looking at you wishing she could beam your brains out of Uranus back to planet earth.
 
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